Besides matchmaking before marriage, what role does the matchmaker play after marriage?

The matchmaker plays a matchmaking role in China's marriage. A matchmaker is also called a matchmaker or sister Daikin. In addition to matchmaking before marriage, the matchmaker also plays the role of reconciliation after marriage.

On the auspicious day of the girl's wedding, the Gelao people sent two younger generations of the groom's family and the matchmaker to meet the bride's wedding. At this time, the elders, brothers, sisters and relatives of the woman's family shouted at the matchmaker in unison, commonly known as "cursing the bride."

For Pumi people who live in Yunnan Province, China, the matchmaker will send gifts to menstruation's home three days before the wedding. And I will be a guest in a woman's stockade for three days. During these three days, every family in the stockade will warmly entertain the matchmaker and invite him to eat meat and drink.

The fourth day is the day to marry the bride. The man's family, the giver and the woman's family will escort the bride to the man's house. On the other hand, the matchmaker was kept in a room, accompanied by a singer from the woman's family.

Luckily for the farewell party, the room was full of songs. When the matchmaker wins, the doorman outside the house will open the door and let the matchmaker catch up with the wedding procession. However, the hospitable villagers in Girl Village prepared an altar of wine for each family and waited for the matchmaker at the gate of the village.

As the saying goes: "There is no cloud or rain in the sky, and there is no marriage on the ground." As a bridge between men and women, the matchmaker plays an important role in bridging the gap. There are also differences in thanking matchmakers in different places.

From marriage proposal to engagement, the matchmaker will act as a middleman. Until the end of the wedding, the matchmaker is voluntary and can't ask for remuneration. But local customs will be different.