Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - The wedding date is the most important event in marriage. You must choose the right date to avoid evil spirits, right?

The wedding date is the most important event in marriage. You must choose the right date to avoid evil spirits, right?

Just a feudal superstition. Choosing a date is to make yourself more at ease. As the saying goes, "a pawn cannot be redeemed, and a woman cannot be married." The wedding date is generally proposed by the man first, and rarely requested by the woman. The date of marriage is the most important thing in marriage, so you must choose good or ill luck. According to the Records of Chinese Folk Customs, in the old days, in Nanjing, "if a man wants to get married, he must first send the eight characters of men and women to the Star Family to pay homage, so as to avoid infringement and punishment. When the couple take a bath, where the water is poured, when they get into the sedan chair, and when they get married, who to avoid is called seeing the sun off. "

In fact, when organizing some happy events, some days are taboo, and children are forbidden to get married-parents' birthdays should try to avoid holding wedding ceremonies in their parents' lunar birthday months, because if parents hold birthday banquets, happy events and happy events are in conflict, and generally less impulsive and lucky people will avoid them in order not to affect themselves or their families. But if parents don't hold a banquet and don't mind, they can still choose. As for brothers and sisters or their own birthday month, don't worry.

Brothers and sisters-getting married in the same month Many friends, brothers and sisters hold weddings in the same month, so we should carefully consider whether it is feasible, because it is easy to have happy events, and it is more appropriate to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

It is not appropriate to attend other happy events in the wedding month, and it is not appropriate to attend other people's weddings, full moon banquets, birthday banquets, and occupation banquets; Because happy events and happy events will collide with each other and rush to the unlucky side so as not to affect others or themselves. If you want to give a gift, you can only give it a month earlier or a month later. As for pregnant women, they can attend other people's wedding banquets, but if the wedding is in the month when they give birth to their children, they should not attend, so as not to cause haste.