My mother-in-law forced me to sign an infertility agreement.

No children? When will you have children? This is the eternal focus of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is reasonable to say that mother-in-law should be looking forward to having a son and a grandson as soon as possible, but this one in the story is uncharacteristic.

Recently, Du Juan in Jiulongpo District was a little annoyed: she got pregnant in advance, which violated the agreement signed by her mother-in-law not to have children for three years. Now, her mother-in-law wants her to move into a new house decorated with 654.38 million yuan. She is worried that the new house that has only been renovated for a month will affect the development of the fetus, and she is afraid that telling her mother-in-law that she is pregnant for two months will make her mother-in-law angry. Du Juan is in a dilemma.

Mother-in-law agreement

Daughter-in-law will not have children for 3 years.

"When I got married the year before last, my mother-in-law made this request." Du Juan, who lives on the 8th floor of Building 4 in Jindao, said that her mother-in-law said at that time that it was time for young people to fight for their careers, and that family and marriage should not delay their development, although she also wanted to have grandchildren. So I want to sign an agreement with my daughter-in-law, "Don't have children within 3 years".

Her husband, Du Jun, said that he and his wife thought differently from their mother. They got married at the age of 25 because they wanted to have children immediately after marriage and then concentrate on their career development. I didn't expect them to know what to do with the "gentleman's agreement" proposed by my mother. "I fought for a long time." Du Juan said that her mother-in-law thinks that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important, and her mother-in-law also thinks of them. A month later, she had no choice but to sign an agreement with her mother-in-law.

be born prematurely

Daughter-in-law dare not move into the new house.

At the end of February, 65438 last year, Du Juan felt unwell and went to the First Affiliated Hospital of Chongqing Medical University for examination. She is pregnant for two months. "A bolt from the blue." Du Juan used this to describe her feelings after hearing the word "pregnancy". Zhang Jun said that after receiving a phone call from his wife, he thought for a long time and decided not to tell his mother. He wanted to wait until his wife was pregnant before saying, "My mother will definitely accept the uncooked rice."

"People are not as good as the sky." Li, a good friend of Du Juan who lives in Building 2 1 of Building H of Xinkangqiao in High-tech Zone, said that on October 3rd, 65438, Du Juan called him and said that her mother-in-law said it was an auspicious day and she was going to move into a new home that had been renovated for more than a month. Afraid of affecting fetal development, but also worried about the lie of "not pregnant", Du Juan hoped that he would help to find a way.

Du Juan said that he asked a bunch of friends, but they didn't have any good ideas. Helpless, she had to refuse to move because she was used to living in the old house. "I actually refused to live in a new house?" Du Juan's mother-in-law, Liu Yinglan, said that her daughter-in-law actually didn't want to live in a new house: "I don't understand at all."

"Mom didn't eat dinner." Zhang Jun said that because he and his wife refused to move, his mother shut herself in the bedroom and sulked. Liu Yinglan said that what makes her even more angry is that for seven consecutive days, she asked her son and daughter-in-law to move, but they were all rejected: "Who wants to live in a new house, but wants to live in an old one?" Something's wrong. Yesterday, Liu Yinglan asked Wang Shuji from the community to help persuade him.

Community mediation

Mother-in-law tore up the "gentleman's agreement"

Wang Yunxia, secretary of the Party branch of Jinyu Community, said that after she knew the whole story, she told Liu Yinglan the truth with the consent of Xiao Du. She advised Xiao Du that it is not necessarily filial to sign an agreement with her mother-in-law, because once pregnant, it will make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law tense.

Wang, who lives next door to Du Juan's house, believes that although Liu Yinglan is kind, she should respect the child's wishes when giving birth, and should not impose her own ideas on the child and make an agreement in the form of an agreement. Wang Ling, who lives on the 8th floor of 1 Building, said that she disapproved of the agreement, but understood the feelings of the elderly. As a child, you can't just obey.

"It's too much." When Liu Yinglan learned that her daughter-in-law was pregnant for almost three months, she was very angry: "No.