what do you think? Participated in more than 20 graduation banquets, and there was also a contempt chain at the banquet.

Regarding the school banquet, Jingyue thinks it has become a bad habit. Behind the hustle and bustle, the surface is a harmonious atmosphere, and its core is the undercurrent, as well as all kinds of unconvinced and compared.

First, the school banquet is essentially a kind of reunion to thank relatives and friends. With the changes of the times, it has also changed. There used to be few college students, so it would be great to be admitted to the university. It is a very happy thing for a child to be admitted to a university or a key high school, so it is a very fun thing to invite neighbors, relatives and friends to have dinner at home, celebrate, contact feelings and exchange ways to educate children.

Now, young, young, junior, junior, college entrance examination and other students. I have to hold a graduation party and I am not at home, so I have to go to the hotel with great fanfare. What is the picture?

To put it mildly, it's for fun, and to put it mildly, it's for money, because people who go to graduation banquets now have to give red envelopes, ranging from 500 to tens of thousands. Therefore, the stale graduation party has made everyone very tired.

As for the organizer, I have attended other friends' graduation banquets before, and I have also shared a lot of money. It's my turn to be a child, and of course I can't suffer. We must do it, or we will lose money.

For the participants, it is also a big expense. If there are many relatives and friends, it will be even more bitter. Join, because you don't think it's worth it. If you don't join, you're afraid that others will be angry, that you're not human, that you're isolated, and that your circle is getting smaller and smaller.

Second, the school banquet has become a dazzling baby contest. I don't know when it started. The school banquet has become a large place for parents to show off their children. At first, I attended a school banquet for my friends and children. When I arrived at the dinner table, Niu Wa's parents were bragging about how interesting and clever their children were. Those parents with average grades can only listen to Niu Wa's parents silently.

If your own children are not as good as their own children, then Niu Wa's parents will look down on these mediocre parents or accuse them of not educating their children well. In short, it is all kinds of contempt.

Sometimes, some parents even divide their parents into three grades according to their students' performance at the banquet, which makes people more or less uncomfortable. If you drink a few more drinks, you may even have a conflict.

Have you noticed, but parents in Niu Wa always like to sit at the same table with their peers at school banquets, talk loudly and wander in their own world. Even parents with ordinary students will take the initiative to change places and are unwilling to listen to their "imaginary life."

Third, the real reason behind the school banquet is worth pondering. Why does the school banquet go on step by step? China is a country of etiquette. It advocates reciprocity, but the school banquet deviates from this beautiful tradition.

This is a gathering place for family and friendship, but it is biased by some people with ulterior motives. Over time, it becomes a cycle. Everything is for face, for face, making everyone unhappy.

There is nothing wrong with having a meal at school, but the degree of this ceremony is distorted by blind comparison. You pack 200 red envelopes, I pack 300, you pack 300 and I pack 500. Nobody wants to fall behind, so don't pick them up. I feel indebted to others and I feel that I have too many burdens, especially those families with few children.

Let the dinner return to the original heart, make the entrance examination less tiring, and let people have more true feelings, instead of blindly comparing, making the increasingly biased entrance banquet a burden and perfunctory. what do you think? Do you agree to attend the school banquet? The comment area is waiting for you to discuss.