Mother-in-law: "Since you have got a marriage certificate, you don't need to give a bride price." Can I still get married?

My husband and his family are very picky people. They pay special attention to days and like auspicious days.

When we got the certificate, my mother-in-law found someone to watch a particularly good day for my husband and me to get married on that day.

I don't value these at all, but I think as long as two people get along well after marriage, everything is not a problem.

My husband had bought himself a house before we got the license. After we get married, my children don't need to be born in a rental house. I am still very grateful to my husband.

After all, few men can buy their own houses now, and generally need the support of their families, and my husband belongs to such an able person.

Moreover, I don't value the economic conditions of my husband's family. What I value more is his own enterprising spirit and enterprise, as well as his responsibility as a man.

I was attracted to him because I found him to be a very enterprising person, willing to devote his time to his work and think about how to make money all day.

Not the kind of man who works from nine to five all day and just wants to chat with friends, play games and chat whenever he has time.

Of course I am willing to marry the man I like, and I am also willing to get a marriage certificate on a particularly good day, which seems to indicate that our future marriage will be prosperous, sweet and lasting.

Getting married and getting a license is all for happiness. I believe the man in front of us.

I got the certificate, and it's still half a year before the wedding. Before the two of us got the license, my husband told me that he would give me 88 thousand as a bride price when holding the wedding. My husband said that this is a particularly auspicious number, which may indicate that our economic situation will develop after marriage.

I don't value the bride price myself, but I think as a woman, even if I don't value the bride price, the man who marries you is willing to tell the bride price to your face, and even give you the bride price, which shows that he really values you in his heart.

I have to say that after my husband and I got the license, I was moved by many details of him.

I am a careless woman myself, but I am more careful than me. I will remember my physiological period and remind me to take medicine when I catch a cold.

With him, I really feel the benefits of marriage, that is, you have one more person who loves you and he will take good care of you. He will care about your emotions and your health.

Yes, many people say that women have to pay more in the days after marriage, as if men have taken advantage of it, but if you really marry love and the man who loves you, you will feel that your pay is worth it.

My husband and I both have our own jobs during the day, and when we can be together, we will cherish the time alone.

My mother-in-law also knows about giving me the bride price money. Before we got the certificate, my husband went back to his hometown to discuss it with his mother-in-law.

I don't know whether my mother-in-law agrees or not anyway. All I know is that my husband gave me the money for the bride price.

After receiving the certificate, I really appreciate that I married a responsible man, a responsible man.

Seeing that the wedding day is getting closer and closer, my mother-in-law has also moved into her husband's new house.

We have to work during the day, and some trivial matters of holding a wedding in a hotel are left to my mother-in-law.

That day, when my mother-in-law was sorting out the guest list, my husband had not come back, and I was typing at the computer desk alone.

My mother-in-law came to ask me about the bride price. I said I don't know, listen to my husband's arrangement.

My mother-in-law said, "My son said to give you a bride price of 88,000 yuan. I don't know if your family has a dowry, but I think this bride price is too much, and now that you have obtained the certificate, you are married. His money is your money. Why should I give it to you as a bride price? I don't think it's necessary to give money for the bride price because you are both married.

I was busy writing at that time, ignoring my mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law kept saying that there were too many bride price of 88 thousand.

I couldn't help it, and said to my mother-in-law, "Even if I get married, I still deserve the bride price money given by your son. I have the freedom to ask for bride price money. As for this money, shouldn't I say something about it? I have discussed with my husband whether our family will get married or not. You don't need to worry. "

In fact, my mother said that my husband gave my parents money for bride price, and they wouldn't ask for a penny. Instead, they will add more than 6.5438 million to the 88,000 bride price money, and turn it into 6.5438 million, all of which will be given to me as a dowry and let me keep it for myself.

Of course, the mother-in-law's statement is correct to some extent. My husband and I have been husband and wife since we got married. His money is my money, but I think this bride price money is also his respect for me and his sincerity in marrying me. I deserve it myself.

However, sometimes, the mother-in-law will be biased towards her son intentionally or unintentionally. After all, the relationship between them is thicker than water, I can understand, but I will not give in. This is my right. I will try my best to fight for things that don't belong to me, and I won't take advantage of them in vain.

My mother-in-law later spoke politely in front of me and probably knew that I was a daughter-in-law.

This is the distance between people. If you respect me a foot, I will pay you back a foot. That's what happens between a daughter-in-law and a mother-in-law. Two people who didn't meet originally, because the same man met, should give each other space and bottom line.

The bottom line of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be crossed at will, and the space cannot be broken at will. Only by grasping the safe distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can such a family be harmonious.

Mother-in-law doesn't need to treat her daughter-in-law as her own daughter, and daughter-in-law doesn't need to treat her mother-in-law as her own mother. Just give each other enough space and respect.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can live in harmony, which is already the best scenery for a small family. The ancients said that home and everything prosper, and such a family will appear.