Choosing a wedding day, male or female, depends on how to choose an auspicious day for marriage.

In our traditional custom, before getting married, parents need to take the horoscope of the newlyweds and find a famous local horoscope to calculate the wedding date. I think only when I get married and choose the right date can my future marriage be harmonious and happy. So, what's the wedding date? Or that woman? Let this column tell you.

Whether the man or the woman chooses the wedding date.

A man or a woman? According to most wedding customs in China, it is common for the man's family to set several wedding dates first, then choose a good day to send the wedding date to the woman's family, and then the woman's family chooses a good day to get married.

How to choose an auspicious day for marriage

Here are some suggestions for choosing a good wedding day.

1. avoid parents' birthdays on the wedding day, because traditional customs think it is bad for parents!

2. Avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events.

3. Old people will be very concerned about such things as choosing the date. We must respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision.

4. Consider the schedules of both parties, because young people are under great pressure to go to work and it is inconvenient to take time off, so it is best to choose holidays and weekends.

In addition to choosing the auspicious day of the zodiac, we should also calculate the most suitable auspicious day according to the birth dates of both parties. Pay attention to whether auspicious days conflict with the new characters and whether there is a crime.

You can choose the couple's birthday as your's wedding anniversary. We all know that most people celebrate their wedding anniversary after they get married. For the standard of wedding anniversary, of course, the couple's birthday can be used. If it is a very good choice to use the couple's birthday as the wedding anniversary, then we can celebrate the wedding anniversary at the same time.

7. Major holidays. For some common festivals in China, such as Mid-Autumn Festival, National Day, Spring Festival and so on. In these festivals, there are usually many people. If a wedding is held on a major festival, many relatives and friends will attend. In that case, it will be very lively.

8. Choose an auspicious day to get married. I like to choose Runnian and leap month. In ancient customs, leap month and leap year are very auspicious years. Every two or three years, there will be a wet year. To hold a happy event in Runnian is to add joy to happiness, so many new people will choose to hold a wedding in this year.