Is it okay to have a funeral when you get married? You can choose to bypass.

First, is there a funeral when you get married?

Generally speaking, people are still taboo about weddings, funerals and weddings. If you know there will be a funeral in advance, you must change the date to welcome the wedding. Sometimes, when you are unprepared, you really meet a mourner and you can't get rid of it. Don't explain, for example, really? Official transportation? 、? Wealth? Wait, this is just a way to comfort yourself.

Except for the taboos on the way to the wedding? Xi chongxi? Or taboo? Fierce and happy? . In Taiwan Province Province, it is considered unlucky for a wedding procession to meet a funeral procession. Because the murder ruined the happy event, so it's called? Fierce and happy? . Central Plains and other places also have taboos in this regard. But some people say that funerals are not taboo, because funerals have coffins. Coffin? Homophonic? Official wealth? So some people say that it is a good omen to meet a funeral. However, after all, weddings are not harmonious. General funerals always remind people? Dead people? , do you hear? Crying? Such things are always difficult to coordinate with the festive atmosphere of marriage.

Another way of saying it is:

There is a folk proverb:? Going out for a funeral, everything goes well? In other words, if something unlucky is robbed by others, it will be safe.

The zodiac is auspicious, some do red things, and some do white things. This is normal. Just like some people in the world are born today and some people die today.

Getting married is a good day for yourself, and bad things have been robbed, which proves that that day is a real auspicious day. May you live happily together forever.

Second, what should I do if I get married and have a funeral?

Birth, aging, illness and death are the laws of the universe, and everyone has such a day. Go around if you can, go around if you can't, and go on if you can't. Don't pay too much attention to the scenery outside. The most important thing between husband and wife is respect and love. Be filial to your parents and love your brothers and sisters. Nothing else matters. Don't always take it to heart. If you don't think about it, it will disappear naturally. It's really annoying You can look at "Four Disciplines for Fan Fan". I believe it will help you!

3. What are the customs of getting married?

1, ancestor worship before the man goes out to marry the bride.

2. The wedding team had better start in even numbers.

On the way to the firecrackers parade, we should set off firecrackers all the way to celebrate.

When waiting for the groom's limousine to arrive at the woman's house, there will be boys waiting for the groom with tea plates. After the groom gets off the bus and before entering the woman's house, he should reward the boy with a red envelope.

The lovely groom should hold a bunch of flowers for the bride to be married in the room. At this time, the bride's close friend will stop the groom and forbid him to see the bride. The woman can ask the groom's consent before entering.

6. Say goodbye to the bride and give incense to her ancestors. The bride bows to her parents to say goodbye, the father covers the veil, and the groom can only bow.

7. The bride who goes out should be escorted on the limousine by the female elders of Buddha National Road with bamboo curtains or black umbrellas, because the bride's position on the wedding day is greater than anyone else's and she can't compete with heaven.

8. Shortly after the bride gets on the limousine, her parents will sprinkle a bowl of water and white rice at the back of the limousine, indicating that her daughter has spilled water and will never ask questions again. I wish her all the best and food and clothing.

9. After the fan throwing car starts, the bride should throw the fan out of the window, which means that bad temper will not be brought to her husband's house. The fan will be picked up by the bride's brother. After throwing the fan, she must cry a few times and cover it behind the car. Bamboo curtain? It symbolizes prosperity.

10. On the way from the woman's house to the man's house, the salute should also ring all the way.

1 1. When the orange welcome team arrived at the groom's house, a child greeted the couple with an orange or an apple. The bride should caress the orange and give a red envelope as a gift. These two oranges should be put in the evening and let the bride peel them herself, which means invitation? Longevity

12. When the bride is taken out of the limousine, a blessed elder of the man will hold a bamboo curtain on the bride's head and help her into the hall. When entering the door, the newcomer must not step on the threshold, but cross it.

13, wedding banquets are quite popular now. Most of them entertain guests at night and hold ceremonies at the same time. At the wedding reception, the bride can take off her wedding dress and put on her evening dress to propose a toast to each table.

14. After the wedding banquet, the newlyweds stood at the door to see off the guests, holding tea trays full of cigarettes and wedding candy.

4. What are the customs in the first year of marriage?

Custom 1: New Year greetings in the first year of marriage.

In the first year of marriage, in addition to paying New Year greetings to both parents, many places will also pay New Year greetings to relatives, give gifts to children and give lucky money, and elders will also give new year greetings red envelopes to newly-married couples who come to visit.

Gifts for both parents: choose some gifts that are easy to display, such as clothes, watches, alcohol and tobacco, tea, jewelry, etc. You know, when relatives come to visit during the Chinese New Year, they generally say that new clothes look good. Where did you buy this kind of tea? It is delicious. If the watch in hand is not cheap, then my parents will have face: my new wife (new son-in-law) brought it back.

Gifts for relatives should be light and affectionate, depending on the economic situation. Get to know the preferences of relatives in advance, so that the choice of gifts is more targeted and people can see that you have a heart. The elders are old people, and they can send health care products and milk powder to the elderly. The elders are middle-aged, and they can send tobacco, alcohol and tea, which is a common gift and a foolproof gift choice.

Custom 2: Where to spend the New Year in the first year of marriage?

This is a problem that many newlyweds are struggling with, especially the two only children. As the Spring Festival approaches, the flavor of the year is getting stronger and stronger. Who to go to for the New Year has made many young couples feel entangled and caught in a dilemma: going to the husband's family and neglecting their parents; I went back to my parents' house and annoyed my in-laws. This problem often leads to many quarrels, silence after differences and the cold war.

Coping methods:

1. Go back once a year and take turns every year.

Suitable for the crowd: it is the fairest way for two only children to have in-laws and parents' families in two places. First, both parents are psychologically prepared to go back to a family for the Spring Festival after the year.

2. Two families fight for one family and have dinner together.

Suitable for the crowd: both husband's family and mother's family are willing to get together. Nowadays, many parents go to their children's home for the New Year, so that neither side feels lost. After the New Year's Eve, they can stay together and spend the Spring Festival together.

3. Take turns to eat at noon and night on New Year's Eve.

Suitable for the crowd: the distance between husband's family and mother's family is close, so it is the most harmonious way for both families to take care of them.

According to traditional customs, New Year's Eve and the first day are spent at her husband's house, and the second day is returned to her family. However, it is a personal choice whether to follow traditional customs or not. In fact, it is the performance of the degree of running-in between husband and wife. There is no need to dwell too much on this issue, and there is no need to cause a quarrel.

Please note:

In the first year of marriage, the pressure of Chinese New Year will be greater. You must be prepared financially and in performance. Only one year. If you have any confusion, please consult your parents. It is most important to have a smooth Spring Festival in the first year of marriage. I wish the newlyweds happiness.