Is it really important to choose a wedding date?

It is very important in the traditional concept. Of course, modern concepts are gradually replacing traditional concepts in modern society, and young people in cities do not pay much attention to the form of marriage. Of course, they don't care about getting married on an auspicious day. Wedding auspicious day refers to the traditional custom of choosing a day that is conducive to the marriage of unmarried men and women. Here, the advantage refers to getting married on this day, which can make the couple get along well after marriage. The key points of choosing an auspicious day are as follows: 1. How to choose a good wedding day when choosing a year and a month? China people attach great importance to the choice of auspicious wedding date, and attach great importance to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon. 2. It is best to avoid the auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Magnolia and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding. 3, to avoid the legend of San Niang, the old man did not lead the red line for San Niang, so that she could not get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage. The principle of choosing the date of marriage is based on the date of birth of the bride, and referring to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as the child is born, the woman marries the line." Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck. 5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays. In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that parents' birthdays are not suitable for marriage, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within this month. 6. Real wedding day If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it is best to do both. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a truly auspicious wedding day. 7. Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people would rather see the date chosen by the Yellow Calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.