Male:1970.9.16.17, female:1979.11.3.4:15, find 20/.

First of all, I wish the two newcomers a happy marriage, harmony and happiness, and unity and harmony for a hundred years!

According to the lunar calendar:

Dry Geng Xu Xu Bing Chen Wu Xin You (Five Elements of Water-deficient Wood)

The yen is high, preferring water and gold; Avoid soil and fire.

Kun Zao Wei Ji pancake ren Xu ren yin (LMNT)

The yen is too strong and likes to use earth and fire; Don't hate water and gold.

In the game between two people, the man should give way to the woman more, and the woman should restrain herself.

According to the birth dates of the two couples and the criteria for choosing auspicious days, I recommend the following auspicious days for you:

20 12 Monday, February 20th (the 29th day of the first month) Renyin Month, Xinhai Day, Chongshe Month, Dehe Liuhe No Week.