I am a sophomore, but I still don't want to study. I feel restless, impetuous and bad.

Whether a person can succeed or not is inseparable from talent, effort and opportunity.

For an individual, what he can control is the second factor, effort.

Efforts include two aspects, one is the accumulation of ability, and the other is the adjustment of emotional intelligence.

Ability is the foundation of your success and the inner foundation. Emotional intelligence can make your vision higher, your fortune more prosperous, and you can influence external conditions.

Both ability and emotional intelligence are indispensable.

There is a saying, which I think is very good, "Personality determines fate, attitude determines height", mainly about the role of emotional intelligence.

I believe that there must be great people in the world who can see their destiny clearly and foresee the future.

If you find this master and ask him to save your life, if he really sees his destiny and tells you his life, and you adjust your behavior accordingly, then fate is not allowed, then "fate can't be called fate", then he and you are going against the sky.

If he tells you that you have made adjustments, that's what he is destined to tell you. After you adjust, you will meet fate.

So, whether he saved your life or not, it must be fate. In other words, if we don't find him, fate won't happen. If you find him, he will save your life. If you do, fate will happen.