The process of getting married is so troublesome ~ ~ it needs expert advice.

1) At present, the wedding time has not been fixed, and both parents have never met. Do you need to get engaged? What should an engaged woman ask if necessary? Is the wedding time decided by both parents?

Engagement depends mainly on your local customs. If you don't pay special attention to it, both parents have met before marriage and it is good to recognize the future partner of your child. If necessary, it is usually the man who wants to give the woman a gift, preferably practical things and electrical appliances. Whether parents decide the wedding time depends on local customs, but in any case, it is certain to let parents know.

2) I want to buy a new house this year, but I can't live in it right away, and I have to decorate it. Is it unnecessary to buy wedding supplies? Do you need new bedding?

Electrical appliances are used for living ... if the new house is not well arranged, electrical appliances can be used until the new house is ready. In this case, I recommend you to travel and get married, and treat the hotel as a new house. If you have a new house, you must use new bedding ... new people. ...

3) When getting married, the woman has a dowry, such as bedding. Do you need to fly it to Manzhouli, Inner Mongolia?

Why are you flying? Why should it be shipped to Manzhouli? ... dowry is a gift that women put at home and a pillar of women's family. It must be kept at home as much as possible, or it can be used frequently ...

4) The wedding banquet is planned to be held once in Langfang, Hebei Province and once in Manzhouli, Inner Mongolia, that is, once at the woman's house and once at the man's house. When the woman's family does it: Will the man's parents go? What should I pay attention to? When the man's family does it: Will the woman's parents go? What should I pay attention to?

When a woman runs a family, it doesn't matter if her parents don't arrive, but generally an elder has to communicate with his elders. To run a man's house, according to normal rules, the woman should send people of the same age to see him off, but parents generally don't.