Chinese and Western Wedding Fengshui

Chinese and western wedding geomantic omen, with the development of society and the blending of cultures, more and more things and cultures have two sides of Chinese and western cultures. For example, the wedding is an example. Below, I will share with you the geomantic omen and differences between Chinese and western weddings. I hope you like it.

Chinese and western wedding feng shui 1 1, Chinese wedding

1, get married on another day

When you choose a wedding day, you choose an auspicious day. "Lucky people are blessed, and lucky people are indifferent to Jiaqing." Therefore, opening, promotion and housewarming throughout the ages will choose the best auspicious day to add luster and auspiciousness to their future. There is a folk saying that "having children, marrying women." It is said that when a woman gets married, it is best to choose the auspicious day of the ecliptic to hold a wedding ceremony for the bride. In the choice of auspicious days, you can refer to the eight characters of both men and women and the five elements of the day to avoid many collisions and unlucky gas fields.

The bride should avoid leaving her family.

Before the bride leaves her family, it is best to hold a bed-rolling ceremony, and choose one from the golden married couples, but the age should not exceed five years old, which means: give birth to your son early. When the bride and groom go out, they must hang red, because the custom of hanging red can be traced back to ancient times. It not only symbolizes the meaning of ward off evil spirits, but also means that happiness falls from the sky when they go out.

3. The bride walks into the house

After the groom takes the bride home, he'd better light a pair of red candles to show that his married life will be beautiful in the future. After the groom receives the bride, he must eat glutinous rice balls when he returns to his hometown, because glutinous rice balls are a symbol of reunion in all parts of the country. By the way, the bride and groom must feed each other six glutinous rice balls, which symbolizes soul mates.

4. Visiting the church should be taboo.

Meeting the bride is a traditional wedding etiquette in China and the most important gift in the wedding process. In ancient weddings, the sacrificial ceremony was held in the hall, so it was also called heaven and earth worship, flower worship, marriage worship and so on. It is not suitable for China people to worship at night, and the orientation of worshipping heaven and earth is southeast. When holding a Chinese wedding, the first taboo is flowers. Because the appearance of flowers in the infield of ancient wedding halls means loneliness, Sima Qian clearly recorded in historical records that there are very few flowers, so prospective newlyweds holding Chinese weddings should remember that flowers are not allowed to enter the infield of wedding halls in any form.

Second, western-style wedding.

1, wedding car feng shui should be avoided.

The wedding car should also choose a date, not only considering whether it is a good day, but also considering whether it conflicts with your animal sign. For example, if you are a sheep, the day you choose is to wash the sheep, which is not suitable for your wedding car trip. Newcomers should also pay attention to getting off! From the feng shui point of view, the order of getting off the first car should be that the bride and groom sit in the back seat of the first car at the wedding, and the best man usually sits in the co-pilot position. When the first bus arrives at the wedding venue, the best man gets off first, and then goes around to the rear of the car to open the door for the groom. The groom went around the front door to the right back door, opened the door for the bride and helped her get off. This is based on the geomantic considerations of "left green dragon, right white tiger" and cannot be reversed.

2. Wedding lights should not flash.

In marriage, the wedding lamp indicates the stability of marriage. The long and bright wedding lamp means that the marriage of two people can last for a long time. However, with the popularity of western culture, it is popular in big hotels to turn off all the lights before the wedding reception, and the service personnel enter the venue with vegetables, fish or many red or pink candles. This is a bit like a western-style birthday, but when the lights suddenly go out, the guests, especially the elders, will feel very uneasy, which is a bad omen. Because in the past, the wedding had to be witnessed by the elderly (lucky men and lucky women), and their anxiety would affect the quality of marriage. If the lights are turned on and off at once for the enrichment of wedding programs, it will make the feelings of the two families good and bad and should be avoided as much as possible.

Chinese and western wedding geomantic omen II. In the traditional wedding in China, the etiquette of worshipping the bride in Gaotang can't be saved. Only those who worship heaven and earth can be considered as real couples in the end.

Western-style church wedding ceremonies believe that a wedding mass must be held in the church to be a valid marriage, but now these two methods are difficult to completely appear, and most people are no longer obsessed with such etiquette.

Second, Chinese weddings should throw hydrangeas to convey happiness, which is somewhat similar to throwing bouquets abroad. Lifting the hijab is also a traditional wedding custom in China, which corresponds to the western groom biting the garter, that is, the groom bites off the bride's garter and throws it out, and the guest will be the next person to get married.

Thirdly, in traditional weddings in China, people often put red dates, peanuts, longan and melon seeds, which means having a baby early. Western dessert tables are mainly made of fondant cakes and cupcakes, which are more attractive to modern young people. There are also differences in the costumes of newcomers. The bride in China usually wears a cheongsam or a robe with feathers, while the groom wears a tunic suit. In western weddings, the bride usually wears a wedding dress and the groom wears a suit. But now most couples choose to wear wedding dresses and suits. Even in a Chinese wedding, the bride will change into a cheongsam or a red skirt, while the groom will still wear a suit.