Why can't you get married in the twelfth lunar month?

In December of the lunar calendar, the flavor of the year will begin to thicken. People usually think that this is a relatively festive month with many traditional festivals. There's a folk saying that people don't get engaged in the twelfth lunar month and don't get married in the first lunar month, so according to the twelfth lunar month, it's not suitable for engagement, but it's still very suitable for marriage.

Why can't you get married in the twelfth lunar month?

According to the ancients, you can't get married in the first month and get engaged in the twelfth month, otherwise the husband and wife can't grow old together. Therefore, marriage is rarely in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagement is rarely in the twelfth month. Because the wife in the first month will hinder the in-laws, and the engagement in the twelfth month will defeat the in-laws, so there is "just don't marry, don't order."

However, different regions have different opinions. For example, in some southern areas, it is considered that after the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month, or even around the New Year, it is the time for immortals to go to heaven, which is very suitable for holding wedding activities, and it is considered as an auspicious day for marriage.

How to choose an auspicious day for a wedding?

1. First, calculate the most auspicious wedding date from the date and time of birth of both men and women. This date "auspicious day" must be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings, and it is not allowed to be with the man's financial star or the woman's official star (except many financial officials).

2. Double spring and leap month: "Double spring" and "leap month" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy! For example, Wu Jia's Renchen (20 12) and Gengzi (2020).

3. Double Spring: refers to the two-year "beginning of spring" at the beginning and end of each year. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves. Leap month: refers to the year when there is a leap month in the lunar calendar, that is, * * * * has thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious. Double spring and leap month: "Double spring" and "leap month" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy.