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Many people ask themselves that they are not superstitious, but when it comes to marriage, in order to get a good start, they can't help but choose a good wedding date from the master of the Book of Changes. From the perspective of auspicious experts, human activities should be balanced and harmonious with nature. The significance of choosing the auspicious day of the ecliptic is to make the married people respect nature and obey the time sequence of nature, so that the married people can be unified for a while and for a hundred years. How to find an auspicious day for marriage? The following are some widely circulated basic principles for choosing a day.

First, the principle of winning.

The "Tong Sheng" or "Huang Li" mentioned here is based on the China lunar calendar, and many calendars indicate good luck or bad luck on this day. According to legend, the Huangli calendar was created by Emperor Xuanyuan, so it is called the Huangli calendar, which is also commonly known as the "general book" among the people. However, because the word "book" and "lose" in Tongshu are homophonic, it is also called "Tong Sheng" because of taboo. The main contents of the Gregorian calendar are the schedule of the twenty-four solar terms, the good and bad luck of each day, the luck of the zodiac and so on. After experiencing the perfection of sages, there are the following principles for the wedding date:

1, the year of good luck

Shuangchun

There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.

Leap moon-the leap moon in the lunar calendar

It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, that is, * * * had thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of moistening and harvesting, it symbolizes that husband and wife have love and moistening, loving and harmonious.

Double spring and leap month

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!

2. Year, month and day not suitable for marriage

Blind year

Refers to the days when there is no "beginning of spring" all the year round. Usually, the second year of "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.

festival

Avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year. Avoid the Tomb-Sweeping Day and Orchid Festival, which is full of yin and qi, that is, March and July.

three niang evil spirit

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

Birthdays of newcomers and relatives

Avoid the birthdays of husband and wife themselves, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

Happy or sad.

Within a year, it is best not to have two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.

Second, the special principle of date selection.

Winning a lucky day is not universal, because individuals are different, and strictly speaking, the birth time of the married person should be considered.

Generally speaking, the following principles need to be followed:

1. Calculate the most auspicious wedding date by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth stars and the woman's official stars (except many financial officials).

2. The "auspicious day" that the selected date does not conflict with parents' birthdays should at least not conflict with parents' horoscopes (five elements of demand) and should not conflict with parents' food-eating stars (except those with serious food injuries).

The date chosen does not conflict with the prediction. Some people are not sure of their exact time of birth. Only through divination can they determine the date. This date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.

However, on the other hand, choosing an auspicious day to get married is not as difficult as expected. The general principle is: day is more important than month, and month is more important than year. Blind years also have auspicious days, so it is not necessary to pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and it is not necessary to postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years.

Our suggestions are: First, choose the wedding season according to your imagined wedding form and local climate characteristics. For example, if you want to hold an outdoor wedding, you should choose a sunny and rainy season with suitable heat and cold. At the same time, we should also consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite don't work locally, then choose Class 11 for a holiday. Secondly, we should also consider the work and study of the newcomers, and try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or in the project research stage. Finally, we can't ignore the opinions of our elders.