Do you say the bride price yourself or your parents say it?

You can talk about the bride price yourself or your parents. There are no certain restrictions, but it depends on whether there is a custom in your place that parents are required to come forward and children are not allowed to come forward.

Giving bride price when getting married is a wedding custom handed down from ancient times in China. Before the wedding, the man needs to prepare a bride price and choose an auspicious day to send it to the woman's home as proof of the marriage. In terms of communication bride price, in fact, you or your parents can. If you talk about it yourself, then discuss the amount and the matters that should be discussed at the wedding, and then tell your parents what you think, so that you can have the final discussion at home.

Of course, if parents communicate, it is not only the amount of bride price, but also a series of things such as wedding room, car, banquet and so on. Therefore, when choosing parents to talk, we should discuss the matters to be discussed in advance, and don't suddenly add a lot of additional conditions, which will put pressure on the man and eventually break up in discord.

Matters needing attention in bride price;

1, when talking about bride price, both parties can simply, directly and generously say the amount they want, and then the two families can discuss it together. Don't have too many twists and turns, just not sincere enough.

2. The man gives the bride price money mainly to show his sincerity, so as long as the man is sincere enough, the woman can consider the amount of the bride price from the man's point of view and don't need to care too much. Of course, the man also gives as much as possible, and the two sides will consider each other and talk about the bride price will be smoother.