Do you have to date to get married?

You need to choose a wedding day. Choose when both sides have time, and don't conflict with work. Generally, there are many new people getting married on holidays, such as National Day. It is more convenient to have a relatively long holiday. Choose some meaningful days to get married, such as Valentine's Day, Chinese Valentine's Day, birthdays of both parties, etc. Also, according to the marriage custom, it would be better to choose an auspicious day for marriage.

There are many Taoist cultures in China's Book of Changes. This aspect is related to some auspicious days and birthdays in our country, which is actually a kind of culture in our country.

How to choose an auspicious day

1. Select leap year and leap month.

China people attach great importance to the choice of auspicious wedding dates and the theory of "leap month" and "leap year", that is, there will be a leap year every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "leap month" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a year with a leap month.

2. Avoid 379

It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

Step 3 avoid sannianzi

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

4. Marriage and date selection method

The principle of choosing the date of marriage is to take the date of birth of the bride as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries a girl". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck.