How painful it is to wean, do you remember? What was the experience at that time?

I have been there before, and I still remember the process of weaning, which is really full of twists and turns!

I'm totally breast-fed. I have plenty of breast milk and the children are full. Besides, I am self-employed and don't have to wean myself for work. But that's all. When the baby was eight months old, grandma urged me to wean!

I couldn't understand at that time, why should the child be broken when it is breast-fed? Husband should never break, after all, it is good to bring your own milk at night. After it's broken, he has to make milk powder at night, please!

So we refused!

However, grandma's attitude is firm, and she talks about it every day, saying that milk is just like white water after half a year old, and there is no nutrition at all, saying that it will affect the growth of children, and comparing it with all kinds of children who eat other people's milk powder, it proves that my baby is underweight! Abnormal development!

Quite a lot, I also began to worry, because children really only love to eat milk and rarely eat complementary food. I am also afraid of affecting her physical development, so I am very cruel!

My mother-in-law was very happy and said that weaning must be separated. Let me send the child there. We live very close. It was the first time that mother and daughter were separated. As a result, the child cried all night. My husband and I stayed up all night thinking about the baby!

We'll get it before dawn. My husband got angry when he saw the child crying badly. He shouted at his mother-in-law and said that we had been milking, so don't make trouble!

My mother-in-law didn't stop until she saw her husband like this, but when she was in front of me at ordinary times, she still ridiculed from time to time, saying that it would never be bad, and she would be laughed to death if she ate too much!

He also said that if you don't care about us in the future, you won't help me with my children!

I've been taking care of the baby, so let her take care of it for one night. She means getting off and weaning, and she doesn't care. Mother and daughter are inseparable and will never break up! Threat component!

I don't care either!

At the age of one and a half, children can walk and talk. They still like to eat during the day, but they have to sleep at night and eat at midnight. They like drinking milk very much. When they play outside, they will suddenly become addicted to milk and tear their clothes and cry. Sometimes I can persuade her to eat when I go back, and sometimes I have to feed her when I cry badly!

Then I think it's time to break it. Discuss with your husband. He said it's up to you. If you want to break it, I'll take it for you for a few nights!

So the second weaning plan began!

Children are only given food during the day, and children agree to let them sleep with their husbands at night. I went to another room and persisted for a few days. The child was noisy, but fortunately the baby chased me for milk with a stool during the day!

I insist on not giving it!

When the milk rises, it will be squeezed out. It's really uncomfortable to apply hot water. In a few days, the milk will gradually decrease, and the child will accept the reality!

However, on the fifth night, I was playing with my children, and suddenly I was very lost. I only breastfed for more than a year when I thought that my child's life was so long. Is breaking up really urgent?

I asked her if she wanted to eat, and she nodded piteously. My heart melted and I fed it again!

Husband is speechless this time. He said, I will leave you alone in the future.

However, I made a deal with the baby. I can't eat during the day and I can't sleep at night. After all, there is not much milk!

In this way, when I was more than two years old, all the other children went to kindergarten, and we were still breastfeeding, so my grandmother stopped talking!

When I was about two and a half years old, I told my child that you were too old to breastfeed!

The child actually understood. One day, she looked at the baby next door and said to me, mom, can this baby breastfeed?

I said yes!

Then she offered to wean!

Although the child wants to wean herself, she is a child after all, and it is very difficult for the child at night, but she understands the truth and persists for a few days, completely weaning!

I don't feel the pain of weaning, but I think weaning is the separation of mother and child, and I feel uncomfortable inside!

Hey, I never regretted it until I was two and a half years old!

Hello, weaning is a milestone in a woman's life. As soon as the child is born, we actively start breastfeeding and let the child feel the love from his mother. But after a while, the child is older, or the mother is going to work, or for other reasons, she can't insist on breastfeeding. This moment must be unforgettable, because there is sadness, loss and joy of success.

Mom Douban was going to start weaning on 1 1 month. At this time, Mom Douban had a high fever and could not breastfeed, so the doctor suggested weaning, but she persisted until 65438+February, and I successfully weaned with Xiao Douban, without tears, and only we worked together.

July 20 17, Xiaodouban was 6 months old, and Douban's mother went to work. I officially started the process of breastfeeding. On the day of milking for 2 hours every day, I felt that I couldn't see the edge at first sight, but I still enjoyed it. However, the weather has been very hot since work, and the rest may not be as good as before. There is not as much milk as when I was at home. Every day is only enough for children to drink that day, and there is no extra milk to squeeze out.

End of February 20 17, 1 1 month. This month, perhaps because of poor rest, Douban's mother had a fever of 40 degrees. I had to go to the hospital after two days of pain. The doctor suggested infusion, and I tried my best to tell the doctor that my child was breast-fed. Is there any other way? Because infusion drugs are likely to enter the blood, breastfeeding will have an impact on children. However, it is very serious and must be infused. These days, I milked and threw away some milk every day, but because of my poor mental state, the milking time was shortened. Milk will naturally decrease. After I got better, I didn't have that much milk. Although it is better after chasing milk several times, it is still not as good as before.

20 18 1 month, small watercress is almost 1 year old. Prepare for weaning according to your own situation and the state of small watercress. We began to try to feed him milk powder once a day. He doesn't resist very much. Slowly, we will feed him some milk powder during the day, and I will breast-feed him and kiss him when I come back from work.

20 18, 1 By the end of June, Xiaodouban had adapted to milk powder. I stopped milking at the beginning of June, and the milk was getting less and less every day, and there was no increase in milk quantity. There seems to be no milk array during that time, only milk decreased. Slowly, Xiao Douban stopped looking for my milk. Actually, it was quite frustrating during that time. Before I go home, he will breast-feed me for the first time, but after weaning, he will occasionally think about letting me breast-feed again, as if he were not so close to me.

At the beginning of February, Xiao Douban stopped eating my milk, because we ended the habit of not having night milk in three months, and after six months, we didn't have the habit of holding nipples, so we passed the evening smoothly.

My milk is slowly gone because of the small watercress. I went to the hospital for examination, and my breasts were healthy. I bid farewell to the breast-feeding of the small watercress.

In the early stage of weaning, if you increase your milk, you can squeeze it properly, but you can't let it rise. This will be very painful and easily lead to mastitis. Weaning is a step-by-step process, so that children can warm up and stop breastfeeding. It's not that children cry after leaving home for a few days, but you are also very tired. The child is afraid that his mother will not want him.

Another key point is that the addition of milk powder should be mild. It doesn't matter if the child doesn't eat it for the first time. We can try more and try several varieties for the child.

Giving birth to a baby for the first time in life, weaning and confinement are almost simultaneous. Weaning is the deepest impression, no one!

I am very happy after giving birth at night. I'm afraid there is no milk. The next day, the milk didn't come, but the child was diagnosed as congenital esophageal atresia, unable to eat, causing pneumonia. The cure rate is extremely low. The doctor and my family advised me to give up, and I was in a particularly bad mood. On the third night, my breasts began to swell and hurt, and sleeping on my side was very uncomfortable. On the fourth day, I was discharged from the hospital, feeling completely immobile and painful when I moved. I can't eat at night and I have a fever all over. Seeing everything is very confused, and the pain is unconscious. I don't dare to move when I sleep at night, and the whole person is in a daze. On the fifth day, I heard that the child had some good symptoms and went to a big hospital quickly.