Goose Offering Ceremony in Manchu Marriage Custom

Abandon the third-class marriage of men and women. Even if it is an inferior marriage, you can be a relative as long as you can't do it. As for men and women belonging to the same family, there is no such thing as the exchange of tears between a white horse and a black cow, a sheep and a rabbit. If there is, there is no need to get married. After marriage, it is a literary decision, which is small. For example, take one or two pairs of gold and silver rings and wallets, and distinguish how many by family. After the wedding date, the man's family is ready to get married and the woman's family is ready to get married. But it takes quite a long time from marriage to marriage, not a year or two. After the marriage was settled, the girl was forbidden to go out and take care of herself. The wedding should be held within one month before the wedding, which is called communication amplification. Before the correspondence, the man asked the bride's dress size and wedding date. The size sheet is used for clothes sent to the bride in letters. The wedding date is to ask the bride's menstrual period in advance so as to avoid it when choosing the wedding date. On the day of communication, the most indispensable of all gifts was the "Shu Tong Dragon and Phoenix Post", which is equivalent to the present wedding book. Because the cover is painted with golden dragon and phoenix, it is named Dragon and Phoenix Post. The content is: Father's golden alliance, the marriage between men is beautiful, Zhu Chenhao's marriage is good, and husband and wife are always happy. When the moon is full, cherish its beautiful scenery, respect the imperial system, and keep the auspicious days of Yin and Yang, and be prepared. I want to get married sometime this year.