Chaoshan confirms engagement or not.

Yes, making decisions is what we are familiar with now. Engagement in Chaoshan area is usually in the evening. There is no procedure for engagement. The man takes his parents to the woman's house to propose marriage, and after negotiation, he is engaged. The man knitted a gold ring for the woman, thus reaching an agreement. I didn't change my address, but I still called my uncle and aunt.

Passing the silver is the name of Chaoshan area, and other areas are called Zhao. The betrothal gift in Chaoshan area is generally a ceremony held after both men and women receive marriage certificates. Bridal gift-usually choose an auspicious day, the man will take a gift and four pieces of gold jewelry from home and send the sweet red envelopes, wedding cakes, candy money, good luck and other items of the woman's parents, grandparents or sisters to the woman's home. As soon as they entered the door, they called the woman's parents their own.

Ready to get married.

After employment, both men and women will prepare for the wedding. The woman will buy things like basin bottom, quilt, clothes and pillows, and the man is going to buy dozens of red envelopes, double happiness stickers and couplets to decorate the wedding room. The bride's dowry is usually even, with 6 or 8 pairs of shoes. In addition, the bride should prepare some daily necessities, preferably even numbers.

Pick up the bride (in a sedan chair) for the wedding.

On auspicious occasions, the man's family will go to the woman's house to pick up the bride, take a red umbrella with six kinds of gifts, wrap it in Kuang Luo, and put two double happiness in it. Take the best man and other relatives to the election, including the groom. When you come to the woman's house, the bridesmaid will have problems to stop the groom, such as asking questions, and if you answer correctly, you will be released. When the bride takes the bouquet from the groom, it means that the bride has accepted the groom.