Why can't I get engaged in the first lunar month?

China has had various wedding customs since ancient times, and there are still many exquisite customs. For example, when choosing an auspicious day for marriage, some months are not suitable for marriage or engagement. Then why can't you get engaged in the first month? When can't you get engaged in the lunar calendar? Let's have a look!

1. Why can't I get engaged in the first month?

1. Tai sui pressure head

In our traditional customs, there is a saying that the first month is red. If men and women get engaged or get married in the first month, it will lead to the pressure of being too old and have a very bad influence on their children and grandchildren, so they will avoid getting married in the first month.

2. Ghost wedding season

Some areas think that the engagement in the first month is not festive, because the first month is the ghost wedding season in the old calendar. Ghost marriage refers to the popular wedding ceremony in the underworld. For their future, they will avoid this season.

3. Traditional festivals

There are traditional festivals in the first month, Spring Festival and Lantern Festival, which are all good days for family reunion. In this month, everyone will be reunited with their families. If you get engaged at this time, it may lead to couples not being able to grow old together.

4. The mouse is married

There is also a folk saying that the third day of the first month is the day when mice get married, so it is not suitable for marriage. However, these are traditional folk customs and have no scientific basis. Now there are some new people who are engaged in the first month, and it doesn't matter.

Second, what month can't you get engaged in the lunar calendar?

1. June

June is half of the year in the lunar calendar, and some places think this month is not suitable for engagement or marriage. The engagement in June is equivalent to the past and the future, which indicates that they may become half-way husband and wife after marriage, which is unlucky.

2. July

The seventh month of the lunar calendar is called the ghost month, and it is unlucky to get engaged in this month. It is said that in July, the gate of hell opened wide, and yin and yang met. Bad things may happen at this time of engagement, so pay special attention.

3. twelfth lunar month

In many parts of our country, there is a saying that we don't get married, which means we don't get married in the first month and the twelfth month. It is said that the twelfth lunar month engagement will defeat the husband's family, so many people will avoid the twelfth lunar month engagement.

Summary:

The above content is related to the engagement month, and I believe everyone knows it. However, these statements have no scientific basis, so you don't have to care too much. If the local people don't have these exquisite things, then the date of engagement can be freely chosen.