Can I go back to my mother's house on the winter solstice?

Some places think you can't go back to your mother's house on the solstice in winter, but some places think you can.

There is a folk proverb that you can't go back to your parents' house on the solstice of winter. It is said that going back to my parents' house on this day is very bad for my father-in-law. In rural areas, there is also a saying that "the solstice of winter is not winter, and your father-in-law will die in winter". Although everyone thinks this is a feudal idea, no one dares to offend it on purpose.

Especially in the north of China, people think that you can't go back to your mother's house on the solstice in winter. In ancient times, bound by "three obedience and four virtues", married women would return to their parents' home after autumn and to their husbands' home on the solstice of winter. Therefore, you can't spend the winter of solstice at your parents' home. Modern times have changed. They are all only children. This custom can also be abolished. However, if the family is very concerned about this, it is best to discuss it with the family to avoid disharmony on the day of reunion.

Taboo of winter solstice

1, don't move During the winter solstice, it is generally not suitable for moving. On the one hand, the temperature is cold due to the solar terms from winter to Sunday. From the perspective of geomantic omen, a cold atmosphere will destroy the prosperity of families. On the other hand, the day before the winter solstice is four days away from the sun, and the old people will think that these days are unlucky and not suitable for such a big event as moving. We usually move here from February to March in spring, even in the morning, and it will be bad after noon. Everyone can choose an auspicious day to move according to local customs.

2. Do not get married. Just like the reason why the winter solstice was not suitable for moving, the winter solstice was not suitable for getting married. The ancients thought that the wedding day should avoid the day before four days, because those days were the legendary four days and four days. This year, the universe is in chaos, and it is considered unlucky to get married at this time. Marriage is a major event in life, and a happy marriage is what everyone expects. If you choose to get married during the winter solstice, it will easily affect the couple's future luck.