Can we sleep together on the last Lantern Festival? Can I have sex on this day? What are the taboos?

In fact, everyone should have an understanding of what people do on some traditional festivals in advance. Only in this way, in the later life, they will be more fully prepared and will not have some contradictory psychology when encountering things. So what should we pay attention to during the Lantern Festival?

What does the roommate say?

Sharing a room is the need of human life and survival. Sleeping together is also called sexual intercourse. In feudal times, men and women were not intimate, let alone openly talking about sex, but sharing a bed as an art was studied by everyone. Also, when a daughter gets married, she will put various pictures and sculptures of men and women sleeping together in her dowry.

Is the Lantern Festival suitable for sharing?

On the first and fifteenth day of each year, these two days are actually the days when the moon is deficient. The moon belongs to yin, which is yin deficiency. People avoid sexual intercourse for fear of imbalance between yin and yang. Many bodhisattvas will come to the world on the fifteenth day of the first month, so they can't do bad things or do husband and wife things on the fifteenth day of the first month. These days include Buddha and Bodhisattva's birthday, Buddha and Bodhisattva's becoming a monk's day, and some human festivals, such as Spring Festival, Lantern Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Dragon Boat Festival. These days are not only a tribute to heaven and earth, but also a continuation of thousands of years of traditional civilization in China. In addition, festivals related to the underworld, such as Tomb-Sweeping Day, Mid-Autumn Festival, winter solstice, etc., have heavy yin, so it is not advisable to do more things for men and women, so as not to be hindered by yin.

What are the customs of Shangyuan Festival?

Lantern Festival is on the fifteenth day of the first month, so the most important thing is to eat Yuanxiao. Eating Yuanxiao on this day represents the reunion and the perfect starting point of the year. By the end of the year, I will also have a complete harvest and get a lot of benefits, so that my married people can live a better life. Therefore, the meaning of eating Yuanxiao on the fifteenth day of the first month is particularly good.