What are the details of marriage and what should I pay attention to?

The important thing about getting married is that holding a wedding is a very grand event in one's life. Different local customs and habits lead to different wedding links. Southerners' weddings go something like this:

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1, proposal: Two young people who love each other decided to get married. The man should invite the elders who are closer (the closer the better) and have better eloquence, and bring even-numbered gifts (usually four varieties) to the woman's house to propose marriage. Don't brag too much about being pragmatic, or the woman's parents will feel unreliable and disagree with this marriage.

2. Pick an auspicious day: After the woman's parents agreed, she began to ask Mr. Wuxing to look at the day and calculate the auspicious time according to the characters of both sides. When the woman enters the door, returns to her mother's house, and holds a banquet, she will write a very detailed understanding.

3. tea appointment: when the bride goes to the man's house, the man informs important relatives to attend the ceremony, and an elderly elder takes the bride to meet relatives, and the bride orders tea and relatives give red envelopes.

4, open face: also known as changing face, is an adult ceremony. A woman opens her face once in her life, and then she doesn't open it after divorce and remarriage. Traditionally, the bride has to wring her face. When twisting her face, she winds a thin thread with her hand, bites one end of the thread with her mouth, and pulls the other end with her hand to wring out the tiny fluff on the bride's forehead and cheeks. 5. Wedding Ceremony: The man calculated the time and took the bride before the auspicious time. If it is six o'clock in the morning, the groom hardly needs to sleep all night. On our way home, men will put a pair of candles when crossing the bridge and respectfully put a pair of candles in the direction of the known temple when passing by.

6. Passing the brazier: When the bride arrives at the man's house, she must pass the brazier before entering the house, hoping to avoid misfortune and turn disaster into joy. Crossing the fire has a symbol of being far from ominous and prosperous, and also hopes for prosperity in the future. You can't step on the threshold when you enter the gate, but cross it.