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Urgent! ! ! Give your adopted son a good name with high scores. What should you do and pay attention to?

Children's five elements belong to water, lacking wood and gold; In winter, the sun is dry and aquatic; There must be a wooden gang, but don't be too hot. The five elements pay attention to balance, and it is better not to be biased or lacking. Mongolian characters belong to wood, children belong to water, and the eight characters like soil. Soil is the western god of children, and the eight characters of children are excellent. Children are the water in winter, and the water in winter is when they are in power. When they meet fire, they can get rid of their own cold, and when they meet soil, they will have a home. More gold makes water meaningless, while more wood makes water affectionate. At this time, if the water is too small, they like to help their companions. If the water is too strong, they like to build soil to prevent it. Because Mongolian characters belong to wood, it is appropriate to supplement gold soil.

Name: Meng Siyi

The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (gold) 6 (earth).

The number of celestial lattice, personality, ground lattice, total lattice and external lattice are 17 (gold) 25 (soil) 15 (soil) 3 1 (wood) 7 (gold) respectively.

Total score of mathematics and physics: 94 points (Kyrgyzstan)

The detailed explanation is as follows:

Tian Ge Mathematics 17 (Gold) [also known as Xiange, left by ancestors, has little impact on life], suggesting:

Strong authority, break through all difficulties, if you can tolerate it, you will succeed. (semi-auspicious)

Personality Mathematics 25 (Earth) [also called nominative, which is the center of the name and the fate of the person in charge], implies:

(Rong Jun) Only by being resourceful can we overcome our arrogance and still succeed. (semi-auspicious)

Gentle and stubborn temperament, like face, too much consideration for their own identity and behavior. Pay more attention to calculation and stress perfection in everything. Note: Don't feel dissatisfied when you can't reach your wishes and ideals. People of this style are always safe and don't aim too high.

Geomatics 15 (soil) [also called forward, it is the fate of the first half of life, and it will have an impact before middle age], suggesting that:

(Fushou) Longevity, wealth, cultivation and respect. (Kyrgyzstan)

The total number of cases is 3 1 (wood) [also known as the fate of the second half of life, affecting middle age to old age], suggesting that:

Get wisdom and courage, win fame and fortune, lead the people to prosperity. (Kyrgyzstan)

Waige's mathematical theory 7 (gold) [also known as spiritual transport, which is in charge of the fate of spiritual strength, social ability and wisdom] implies:

(The number of seven strategies) The number of seven strategies is lean and rigorous, with talent and good luck. (Kyrgyzstan)

The genius of heaven, man and earth (golden earth) implies whether health and life are smooth;

You can achieve unexpected and successful development, have the luck of fame and fortune, have a solid foundation, be peaceful and healthy, avoid all kinds of disasters, and live a long and happy life. (Kyrgyzstan)

1, general: the configuration of life-long security and stability is more suitable for some easy work, and it developed smoothly in the early years. When expanding your career, you should pay attention to your ability and be careful.

2, personality: strong, unyielding, with lofty ideals. The appearance is kind and serene, giving people a relaxed feeling. The overall economic ability is good, and you can make a fortune if you can seize the opportunity. We should pay attention to starting from small things, prevent the shortcomings of being superior to others, and seize the opportunity of success.

3, will: strong will, do things slowly and steadily, to prevent impatience, anticlimactic tendency.

4, career: more suitable for working-class or engaged in stable work, life and work are relatively stable.

5, family: the family is relatively complete, and the father and wife are relatively strong. Husband and wife should pay attention to mutual respect and don't quarrel.

6. Marriage: a man marries a virtuous wife, and the husband and wife are harmonious after marriage; A woman marries a talented and gentle husband and has a happy family after marriage.

7. Children: There are more girls than boys and they have a sense of responsibility. When they grow up, they can be filial to their parents and get favorable comments from the society.

8. Socialization: I am popular, polite and sincere, but sometimes I am embarrassed.

9. Spirit: Self-motivated and curious, giving people a feeling of striving for progress. But when you lose, you should adjust your mood, keep a happy mood and don't be dissatisfied with the reality.

10, Wealth: Wealth is relatively stable and income is stable for a long time. We should be more frugal and reduce unexpected losses.

1 1, health: live a long and healthy life, and pay attention to diseases such as stomach, kidney and bladder.

12, Lao Yun: The evening performance is more diligent and peaceful, so don't expect too much, and pay attention to adjusting your mood.

The collocation of personality and personality (57) implies that information such as interpersonal relationship, social ability and occupation is:

Don't compromise easily, you can accept criticism from others, but you can't change it in future actions. Strong activity. Only when harmony can be achieved can there be great development. (Daji)

More information:

Personality mathematics theory 25 implies that personality is:

Wash more and practice more, easy to get close to, gentle and calm, generous, compassionate and proud. Belong to the fate of family happiness. Strong inside, not obvious outside. Easy to be close, easy to be cold, and slightly jealous.

The collocation of personality and personality (57) implies success;

Successful and smooth, you can achieve your goals safely. ㈠

The collocation of personality and geography (5-5) implies basic luck;

Steady personality, slow success, overall success and happiness. ㈠

Personality or geography have numbers such as 15, 16, 23, 24, 32, 33, 4 1, 42 (more money, more money).

There are 5,6, 1 1, 13, 15, 16, 24,32,35. If a woman is a woman, she is virtuous, helping her husband and loving her son.

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Name: Meng

The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (gold) 6 (earth).

The number of celestial lattice, personality, ground lattice, total lattice and external lattice are 17 (gold) 25 (soil) 15 (soil) 3 1 (wood) 7 (gold) respectively.

Total score of mathematics and physics: 94 points (Kyrgyzstan)

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Name: Meng Xingyu

The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (gold) 6 (earth).

The number of celestial lattice, personality, ground lattice, total lattice and external lattice are 17 (gold) 25 (soil) 15 (soil) 3 1 (wood) 7 (gold) respectively.

Total score of mathematics and physics: 94 points (Kyrgyzstan)

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Name: Meng Shiyi

The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (gold) 6 (earth).

The number of celestial lattice, personality, ground lattice, total lattice and external lattice are 17 (gold) 25 (soil) 15 (soil) 3 1 (wood) 7 (gold) respectively.

Total score of mathematics and physics: 94 points (Kyrgyzstan)

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Name: Meng Yongcheng

The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (earth) 6 (gold).

The number of celestial lattice, personality, ground lattice, total lattice and external lattice are 17 (gold) 25 (soil) 15 (soil) 3 1 (wood) 7 (gold) respectively.

Total score of mathematics and physics: 94 points (Kyrgyzstan)

The detailed explanation is as follows:

Tian Ge Mathematics 17 (Gold) [also known as Xiange, left by ancestors, has little impact on life], suggesting:

Strong authority, break through all difficulties, if you can tolerate it, you will succeed. (semi-auspicious)

Personality Mathematics 25 (Earth) [also called nominative, which is the center of the name and the fate of the person in charge], implies:

(Rong Jun) Only by being resourceful can we overcome our arrogance and still succeed. (semi-auspicious)

Gentle and stubborn temperament, like face, too much consideration for their own identity and behavior. Pay more attention to calculation and stress perfection in everything. Note: Don't feel dissatisfied when you can't reach your wishes and ideals. People of this style are always safe and don't aim too high.

Geomatics 15 (soil) [also called forward, it is the fate of the first half of life, and it will have an impact before middle age], suggesting that:

(Fushou) Longevity, wealth, cultivation and respect. (Kyrgyzstan)

The total number of cases is 3 1 (wood) [also known as the fate of the second half of life, affecting middle age to old age], suggesting that:

Get wisdom and courage, win fame and fortune, lead the people to prosperity. (Kyrgyzstan)

Waige's mathematical theory 7 (gold) [also known as spiritual transport, which is in charge of the fate of spiritual strength, social ability and wisdom] implies:

(The number of seven strategies) The number of seven strategies is lean and rigorous, with talent and good luck. (Kyrgyzstan)

The genius of heaven, man and earth (golden earth) implies whether health and life are smooth;

You can achieve unexpected and successful development, have the luck of fame and fortune, have a solid foundation, be peaceful and healthy, avoid all kinds of disasters, and live a long and happy life. (Kyrgyzstan)

1, general: the configuration of life-long security and stability is more suitable for some easy work, and it developed smoothly in the early years. When expanding your career, you should pay attention to your ability and be careful.

2, personality: strong, unyielding, with lofty ideals. The appearance is kind and serene, giving people a relaxed feeling. The overall economic ability is good, and you can make a fortune if you can seize the opportunity. We should pay attention to starting from small things, prevent the shortcomings of being superior to others, and seize the opportunity of success.

3, will: strong will, do things slowly and steadily, to prevent impatience, anticlimactic tendency.

4, career: more suitable for working-class or engaged in stable work, life and work are relatively stable.

5, family: the family is relatively complete, and the father and wife are relatively strong. Husband and wife should pay attention to mutual respect and don't quarrel.

6. Marriage: a man marries a virtuous wife, and the husband and wife are harmonious after marriage; A woman marries a talented and gentle husband and has a happy family after marriage.

7. Children: There are more girls than boys and they have a sense of responsibility. When they grow up, they can be filial to their parents and get favorable comments from the society.

8. Socialization: I am popular, polite and sincere, but sometimes I am embarrassed.

9. Spirit: Self-motivated and curious, giving people a feeling of striving for progress. But when you lose, you should adjust your mood, keep a happy mood and don't be dissatisfied with the reality.

10, Wealth: Wealth is relatively stable and income is stable for a long time. We should be more frugal and reduce unexpected losses.

1 1, health: live a long and healthy life, and pay attention to diseases such as stomach, kidney and bladder.

12, Lao Yun: The evening performance is more diligent and peaceful, so don't expect too much, and pay attention to adjusting your mood.

The collocation of personality and personality (57) implies that information such as interpersonal relationship, social ability and occupation is:

Don't compromise easily, you can accept criticism from others, but you can't change it in future actions. Strong activity. Only when harmony can be achieved can there be great development. (Daji)

More information:

Personality mathematics theory 25 implies that personality is:

Wash more and practice more, easy to get close to, gentle and calm, generous, compassionate and proud. Belong to the fate of family happiness. Strong inside, not obvious outside. Easy to be close, easy to be cold, and slightly jealous.

The collocation of personality and personality (57) implies success;

Successful and smooth, you can achieve your goals safely. ㈠

The collocation of personality and geography (5-5) implies basic luck;

Steady personality, slow success, overall success and happiness. ㈠

Personality or geography have numbers such as 15, 16, 23, 24, 32, 33, 4 1, 42 (more money, more money).

There are 5,6, 1 1, 13, 15, 16, 24,32,35. If a woman is a woman, she is virtuous, helping her husband and loving her son.

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Name: Monquisi

The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (earth) 6 (gold).

The number of celestial lattice, personality, ground lattice, total lattice and external lattice are 17 (gold) 25 (soil) 15 (soil) 3 1 (wood) 7 (gold) respectively.

Total score of mathematics and physics: 94 points (Kyrgyzstan)

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Name: Meng Weizhou

The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (earth) 6 (gold).

The number of celestial lattice, personality, ground lattice, total lattice and external lattice are 17 (gold) 25 (soil) 15 (soil) 3 1 (wood) 7 (gold) respectively.

Total score of mathematics and physics: 94 points (Kyrgyzstan)

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Name: Meng Yuzhou

The strokes are: 16 (wood) 9 (earth) 6 (gold).

The number of celestial lattice, personality, ground lattice, total lattice and external lattice are 17 (gold) 25 (soil) 15 (soil) 3 1 (wood) 7 (gold) respectively.

Total score of mathematics and physics: 94 points (Kyrgyzstan)

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"Worship godmother" is an adoptive father and foster mother, which is a popular conservation custom in China. In the north, it is called "recognize michel platini, godmother"; In the south, it is called "recognizing the father and sending the mother away", commonly known as "worshipping the house owner and the house mother".

Friar relatives in infancy may be permanent, and this relationship may last for a lifetime, or it may be temporary. It is irrelevant to meet each other in a hurry every three to five years. The object of "worshipping relatives" is both people and things. One of its purposes is to be afraid that children are delicate and difficult to have children, or that they have died before, and that they have no children, so as to avoid disasters and save their children by "worshipping relatives"; Second, the child's fate is not good, and the father and mother are forced to transfer their fate through "worshipping relatives" in order to achieve harmony and prosperity. In order to make children easy to raise, "worshipping godfathers and godmothers" generally like to recognize families with many children or poor families as adoptive parents, because children in families with many children are like a group of small animals and easy to grow up; In addition, poor families generally have more children and are not effeminate, but they are easy to feed and grow up. Of course, there are also two families who are willing to admit that each other's children are adopted sons and daughters in order to enhance their feelings. As for the rich people who admit that Hannah Quinlivan and the dancers are goddaughters, they have ulterior motives, which are beyond our discussion.

Due to the different geographical, ethnic and cultural backgrounds, the custom of "worshipping relatives" is also very different in etiquette and customs.

In Beijing, it is generally believed that to recognize michel platini, a dopted mother will be unfavorable to her own children, so she is not a close friend, and people generally dare not ask michel platini and Ma Yu if they are their own children; And worship the godmother, the two sides should exchange gifts and hold banquets. After that, every year, the godchildren will give gifts to michel platini and godmother, and michel platini and godmother will also give gifts back. Therefore, no wealthy family is difficult to socialize.

Since you want to "worship your relatives", you have to choose an auspicious day to hold the ceremony. At that time, parents should not only prepare a sumptuous banquet, but also prepare gifts for their children to pay tribute to michel platini and godmother. In this gift, the most important thing is the hat for michel platini and the shoes for dopted mother. In addition, items such as cloth should be provided. Of course, michel platini and dopted mother can't just go in and out. Michel platini and dopted mother must give their adopted sons and daughters rice bowls, chopsticks and a long life lock. In addition, they should also have a set of small clothes, such as shoes and socks, hats, bibs and stomachs. In the past, for these gifts, wealthy families would go to jewelry stores to order silver bowls and chopsticks, or go to Huguo Temple and Baita Temple to buy wooden bowls to prevent children from breaking them by mistake. It is considered unlucky to break the bowl in case.

In some places in Henan and Shaanxi, "worshipping relatives" is done by "touching". In Zhengzhou and Kaifeng, Henan Province, on the first morning of a baby's birth, the baby's father will go out and "touch" his surname. The first person "touches" the baby's father, regardless of sex, age, and child, will kneel and kowtow, and then explain to him that he has a baby at home and ask the other person to name the baby. In the past, most people in rural areas were old scavengers, some of whom were unprepared, but because of customs, it was not convenient to drive them away, so they had to make up their minds. As a result, names such as "Dung Basket", "Rotou", "Dog Baby" and "Cat Baby" came out. Although these names are a bit indecent, they are just nicknames, which are people's favorite names for children. It doesn't matter much if they are called children. In some places, people who are "touched" not only give the baby a name, but also give the baby a gift and are recognized as godmothers. In some places in Shaanxi, the "recognition of godmother" is usually carried out by grandmother or grandfather on the day of the child's "full moon", and the first adult who meets after going out is worshipped as godmother or michel platini. Of course, this kind of "collision" is random, and most occasions are arranged in advance. The first person Bump meets is someone who has a good relationship with his family or status.

In Hangzhou, children also have a custom of "visiting relatives". The godfather godmother they worship is not a real person, but a "ghost" often mentioned in Lu Xun's articles. There, "parents are afraid that their son will not live long, and they are afraid that it will cost a lot of money to worship their parents, so they don't give it to others, but to ghosts", commonly known as "worship Hu Ganye". According to local legend, ghosts are ghosts specially sent by Yan Luowang to detain the souls of the dead. He sent his children to the ghost, hoping that it would not detain his son's soul to protect his longevity. In the past, the world didn't know the name of the ghost and mistakenly thought it was Hu's surname, so it was called "Hu Ganye". The way to pay homage to Hu Ganye is: the children's parents first make a brand-new white dress, then take it to the temple, change it into the old clothes on the statue of Hu Ganye, and burn it with soju, sesame seeds, incense sticks and silver ingots. Finally, the messenger's son was named by the monks in the temple. Since then, every July, the children's parents will take him to the temple to celebrate the birthday of Grandpa Hu until the children grow up to 16 years old.

Besides the Han nationality, some ethnic minorities in China also have the custom of "visiting relatives", such as Tujia nationality, which is very representative. Tujia children not only give their children to people with other surnames as "godsons" or "goddaughters", but some families also give their children to trees, stones, wells, pigs, dogs, chickens and other things, and name them after things they worship. If it is a boy, it is generally called "rock protection", "water protection", "pig protection" and "chicken protection". If it's a girl, it's usually called "Yan Mei", "Shui Mei", "Dog Sister" and "Chicken Sister". Because in the eyes of Tujia people, only by sending children to others or things can we eliminate disasters and let children grow up smoothly.

But the ordinary ceremony of "recognizing dopted mother" is completed as long as the children formally kowtow to michel platini and dopted mother and change their names to michel platini and dopted mother. If the child is young and particularly delicate, when recognizing the dopted mother, the dopted mother will wear a particularly fat red trousers and sit on the kang, and others will hold the child out of the crotch, indicating that the child is her own. Then dopted mother gives him (her) a long life lock, gives him a baby name, and eats bowls and chopsticks sent by father and dopted mother in the future. This means that children will become their children from now on, eat their family's food, and have nothing to do with their biological parents. From then on, children can borrow the blessings of michel platini and dopted mother to grow up smoothly and live a long and healthy life.

Although different regions and nationalities have different forms of expression, we can still find some similarities, that is, (1) the same purpose is for the good care and smooth growth of children; (2) The causes are similar, and they are all superstitious; (3) Emotions are consistent, and they are full of extremely strong human feelings.

■ Recognize relatives

Recognizing relatives is a popular folk custom in rural areas of Shanxi in the old days. After the kinship is recognized, most of the contacts are frequent, imitating the way of family communication and forming a relatively fixed kinship.

In rural areas, although there is no fixed procedure, michel platini, godmother, godbrother and godsister are recognized as godmothers. The reasons for the formation of confession are roughly like this. The two families are friends and have a good relationship. In order to make this connection relatively fixed, the method of letting the next generation recognize and confess is adopted to deepen communication. For example, foster parents, foster mothers and so on. Some are because one party has great kindness to the other family, and one party repays the kindness of the other party, so a long-term relationship with relatively fixed procedures is formed by adopting relatives and adopting children to achieve the purpose of gratitude. Also, because the children are delicate and afraid of premature death, they adopt the method of betraying relatives, and let the michel platini brothers and sisters leave their children behind, so that they can avoid misfortune and grow up. There are also some families, in order to climb to the top, become expensive, so that their children can recognize wealth as michel platini, or they can benefit from it in the future. There is also a new relationship between children and wet nurses by sending them to the wet nurse's house for breastfeeding. In rural areas, they are called wet nurses, wet dads and wet brothers. In fact, this is also a godmother relationship. There are various reasons for recognizing kinship, but the appearance of this kinship naturally makes the relationship between the two families enter a sequence of kinship exchange.

I know relatives all over Shanxi, especially in Yanbei, Xinzhou, Jinzhong and Jinnan.

Rural customs, once the dopted mother is recognized, everything should be carried out in accordance with the general procedures of rural exchanges. All children who recognize michel platini's godmother should follow the procedures of rural customs in celebrating the Chinese New Year and celebrating their birthdays. To be a godson, we should take care of michel platini and dopted mother, do our godson's duty and give some financial support. Michel platini dopted mother, on the other hand, has to ask her son about major activities such as getting married, having children and building a house, and give necessary support and funding.

With the development of society, there are fewer and fewer relatives in rural Shanxi, but they still exist in rural areas. This is a special kinship, which exists in the society and becomes one side of the social network.

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