Should the in-laws go to the man's house first or the man go to the woman's house first?

The man goes to the woman's house first.

In many places, it is customary for men to meet their parents first, which is also related to the meeting ceremony. Because some women's parents also give gifts, they need to give twice the gift money to the women's parents when they meet the men's parents in the future, so they should meet at the women's house first.

In the relationship between men and women, the man should be the active party, so the man should go to the woman's house first, and the in-laws should also take the initiative to go to the woman's house. If a man wants to marry a successful woman, he must leave a good impression on her parents and go to her in-laws' house, which can show that the man attaches importance to her.

If you want to get married smoothly, you must first get rid of your parents-in-law. The man will go to the woman's house first and convince his father-in-law first, so that the later things will progress more smoothly. Girls are generally shy. If a woman goes to a man's house, she can easily put it down.

There will be things in-laws need to discuss.

Local engagement and marriage customs.

When talking about marriage, we should talk about the local engagement and marriage customs of both parties, but mainly focus on the local customs of the woman and respect her.

2. Date of engagement and marriage

After discussing the engagement and marriage customs, you can agree on the engagement and marriage date. You can take two people's birthdays as auspicious days, or you can discuss a good day and set a time for engagement and marriage.

3. Bride price and dowry

The bride's price and dowry are sensitive topics that must be discussed. The man needs to listen to the local bride price customs and personal requirements of the woman first, and then negotiate with the other party to decide the final bride price according to his actual situation.