Don't have sex with men when women are crazy.

It is often women who suffer from sexual intercourse. In the period of true love, at that stage, women must be reserved and cannot cross the line. After all, men and women are not equal in this respect. Men have the feeling of virginity and want their future wives to be clean.

The word "go out" means no sexual intercourse. Post-80s and post-90s are more open to Chu, especially post-90s. People's temperament is very free. Why should we be branded with morality? What's the difference between this and the prostitute memorial arch?

Perhaps, for many women, it is not unusual or important not to be a virgin before marriage. The important thing is that this man can accept it, even if he slips. It's not that women lose their virginity because they have no morality. Free love forces men and women to have free space to play, and mature bodies trigger sexual impulses. Moreover, there is no law in our country that premarital behavior is a crime.

So, what do men think of virginity, and what do women think of virginity?

A man's chastity

1. Men urgently need virgins. Any man wants his wife never to have sex, which means not only chastity, but also loyalty to love.

2. Men can't help but find a virgin, as long as women can have children. Imagine that with so many divorces and cohabitations, it is impossible for two people to fall in love and finally come together. So having sex means it's not a good place. Be tolerant and learn from western countries, so you don't think so.

It doesn't matter if you are a woman. I'm not a virgin, so it's a bit unreasonable to ask others to be virgins. Most of these people are fictional humans. They think that love can conquer traditional ideas. This is just a statement, not love.

To sum up, China men's feelings for chastity are very serious. They don't talk, but they care. However, society is like this, and there is no way to be picky. However, there are still some women who suffer tragedies everywhere, and their feelings are often broken because they are not virgins.

Second, women look at virgins.

1. I'm worried. Since you are loyal to love, you should give your first time to each other. If I am not a virgin, I will betray myself. If I can betray others, I will betray myself.

If there is no way, you can't be sure if you are a virgin. Although I care about whether I am a virgin or not, I can't tell, and I have no obvious virgin characteristics. But once they know that the other person is not a virgin, they will doubt many things, even suspect that he has had a relationship with Slippery, and think that such a man is unreliable.

Never mind, just be honest with yourself. A good man is not necessarily a virgin. It is generally said that second-hand goods are good men. Many women don't care about chastity, thinking that as long as they have a stable home and a shoulder. As for a man's past history, it's none of her business.

To sum up, most women in China can't establish their own status, thinking that men have the right to choose, just take off their pants and wear them, while women worry too much, and once they have a bad reputation, it will affect their lives.

In contrast, women are weak. She paid not only a movie, but also health. Sexual behavior will not only cause a variety of symptoms, but also affect future fertility, such as multiple abortions and taking a large number of contraceptives. Men, however, are just a state of venting, and there will be no physical harm at all. When you take off your pants and put them on, you decide the fate of this woman.

Obviously, today's pK has lost its meaning to some people, but it will also be thought-provoking. The meaning of "position" not only refers to the body, but also includes morality. Maybe people don't think about moral problems, and there are many ways to solve them. But in the end, we have to face it.

Couples should remember six "no's" when they get along.

1. Don't blame each other.

"It's all your fault!" "You asked me to do so. Because of you, things have become a mess! " Such complaints are easy to say. And words like "what responsibility should I bear" are rarely exported. The actual manifestations of complaints are accusations and threats, and the other party will naturally answer blows with blows, leading to an escalation of contradictions.

Suggestion: write down your complaints about your lover, then ask yourself, check your responsibilities, and finally discuss and find a solution.

2. Don't doubt it.

Don't think you know everything about your lover's thoughts and feelings. Nine times out of ten, you will make a mistake. In the marriage crisis, the suspicion of catching shadows often happens, which makes both of them very angry, difficult to communicate, and finally the relationship breaks down.

Suggestion: Take a piece of paper and finish the sentence "I guess my wife will think of me (for me)" directly according to intuition. Then, test your guess with your lover. As a result, you will find that many guesses are wrong. When in doubt, the best way is to ask him directly.

Don't use silence as a weapon. Silence is a deadly weapon in the relationship between husband and wife.

Suggestion: Write a letter to your lover to express your anger and your troubles, and strive for communication and understanding between husband and wife with a positive attitude.

Don't take what your lover does for granted.

It is very important to express gratitude to your lover. Three negative attitudes should be eliminated: sense of justice, unrealistic expectations and false forgetfulness.

Suggestion: Write down what your lover has done for you. Ask yourself if you have expressed your gratitude for these things and how you expressed it. Continue to express your gratitude to 1 week, and you will find changes.

5. Don't explain at random.

"Now I can understand why you are so picky. You are like your father. " This seemingly understandable analysis of lovers' behavioral motives will only lead to anger.

Suggestion: First understand the reason why you are angry, learn to listen to your lover's point of view in an open and loving way, let your lover know that you are listening carefully through nonverbal means such as eyes, and finally make constructive suggestions.

6. Don't be afraid to say "No"

It seems beneficial to blindly satisfy each other at the expense of one's feelings, but it is insincere. Without a sincere marriage, it is difficult to have an intimate relationship.

Suggestion: telling the truth can win the trust of your lover and deepen the relationship between husband and wife. List all the things you are afraid to tell your lover in order of difficulty. Then start with the simplest and try to tell your lover the truth.

Men's "four deadly sins" hurt their wives the most.

One wound: nonsense.

Amy has been very busy at work recently, and she has social intercourse from time to time in the evening. When she got home, the night was hazy. I was greeted by my husband Lei Yang's angry expression and complaining words: I don't want to call, but I still have this home in my heart. I'm as busy as a bee outside. When I got home, I was frozen stiff. Amy burst into tears. Her careless words hurt Amy.

Generally speaking, it doesn't matter what you say in interpersonal relationships, but the closer you are, the more careful you should avoid it, because any casual words may cause harm. In addition, most women fall in love with ears and are extremely sensitive to the information inadvertently conveyed by male language.

Analysis: "Please be careful, my injury comes from you" is a lyric to remind the husband never to forget his wife's vulnerability. If you are a little more careful, you will consciously abide by the "husband and wife discipline" as soon as you jump to the "nonsense" on your lips. Only by working hard can love be thick.

Injury 2: Forget the important day.

Angie hopes her husband will take the initiative to remember her birthday and their wedding anniversary. Near that day, Angie always said some charming words intentionally or unintentionally, which made her husband a little confused. There were some criticisms and complaints in his wife's words, until finally, Angie said angrily, why do you always forget these important days and make people doubt your true love?

Despite repeated advice from marriage experts, careless husbands still forget their wives' birthdays and wedding anniversaries. In fact, if we carefully study women's psychology, there is not much mystery: just to prove that husbands care about themselves and miss themselves.

Analysis: Women are easily moved because they are more considerate than men. A husband who can share a happy birthday with his wife is a gift that his wife can't get. Almost all women have to face the hardships of this world while being housewives. Think about the double hardships of women. Shouldn't men give women more consideration and comfort? Tell her quickly.

The third kind of injury: the repressed self

Lili, 3 1 year old, has lived with her husband for 4 years. There is nothing wrong with my husband, but Lili is unhappy. Because in their marriage, every plan or idea put forward by Lili will be aborted by her husband's loud denial or confused opposition. If Lily has plans for the weekend, her husband will say, who cares about the children? Lily, who is deeply caring, became uneasy at once. She was afraid that her husband would blame her for not loving her family and having no sense of responsibility. Living in such a flattering habit, Lili suppressed her inner desires. In fact, she is not happy at all.

Psychologists say that women are more likely than men to suppress themselves in marriage, on the one hand, to maintain the stability of marriage, and on the other hand, because women think it is easier to control their feelings than to change lovers. So many wives always bear resentment alone and suppress it. In the process of courtship, they saw their husband's smiling face. Of course, men prefer to see their own advantages at home.

Analysis: In order to strive for the best interests in the relationship with men, women's actions often make them appear passive, and men rarely understand their goodwill disguise, which will only prompt them to give orders. Self-repression can only lead to a deeper gap. It's better to open your heart and show yourself bravely.

Injury 4: A man's strength is a woman's weakness.

Men always think that independence is a virtue of men, but they don't know that many times a man's strength is just a woman's weakness. Influenced by the male-centered culture since childhood, men everywhere remind themselves to be indomitable men. Sudden silence often confuses wives: I promised to come back to accompany you tonight when I left in the morning, but I kept silent at night, saying that I was too busy and tired at work today and didn't find the feeling of talking. How can a wife who loves her husband endure this wordless torture?

Like Jony J, she spent two weeks in her husband's silence with great restraint. It was not until another night that she burst into tears in his arms that he realized that his independent self-esteem had become his wife's pain.

Analysis: Psychologists tell us that because of different psychological needs, men tend to be lonely and women tend to be Yu Youshan; Men's psychological characteristics are more suitable for society, while women's psychological characteristics are more suitable for family. Therefore, in family life, men should obviously be closer to women. A person's independent strength may be a brave talent at work. If faced with a two-in-one marriage, such a talent is bound to become a wife's injury and hidden pain.

Conclusion: After reading the above, I believe everyone has a comprehensive understanding and cognition of how men and women view "the first time". In fact, whether it is the first time or not, as long as we are together and suitable for each other, it is the most important thing. Simply asking for your true love for the first time is not worth the loss.