202 1 How about going back to the winter solstice? Who is not good for going back to her mother's house? What should I do when I go back to my mother's house?

202 1 How about going back to the winter solstice?

It is not recommended to return to the door on the winter solstice of 202 1. Judging from the date of the Gregorian calendar, the winter solstice of 202 1 belongs to Mafia Day, so it is not recommended to return to China on the same day.

The time of winter solstice in 202 1 year is:

Lunar calendar: 202 1 year 1 1 month 18; Gregorian calendar: February 202 1 1 Tuesday.

202 1 twelfth day of winter solstice: working day

In the Gregorian calendar, the establishment day, full day, weekdays, broken days and closed days are called Mafia Day.

Who is not good at going back to her mother's house on the winter solstice?

From the perspective of folklore, it is not good for my father-in-law to go back to her mother's house on the day of winter solstice.

There is a folk saying that the solstice of winter is not winter, and my father-in-law dies in winter. In fact, this sentence means that daughters who get married on the winter solstice are not allowed to go back to their parents' homes for dinner, but need to eat at their husbands' homes. My daughter gets married in the winter of the solstice and goes back to her family for dinner, which is very bad for my father-in-law.

In the old society of our country, due to the feudal ethics of three obedience and four virtues, there were certain constraints on the daughter-in-law. In the past, the daughter-in-law would go back to her mother's house after the autumn harvest, so she had the custom of going back to her husband's house from winter to Sunday.

With the development of the times, China's traditional customs also take its essence and discard its dross, so some bad customs are gradually forgotten. However, if family members are particularly concerned about these traditional customs, as the younger generation, we'd better discuss with them in good faith. The solstice in winter is a reunion festival, and it is not recommended for family members to quarrel.

What should I do when I return to my mother's house on the winter solstice?

Because there is a saying in the countryside that the winter solstice will not last and my father-in-law will die in winter, so all women will be afraid of having a bad influence on their father-in-law when they go back to their parents' house on the winter solstice.

But this statement has no scientific basis at all, so even if you go back to your mother's house, you don't need some special methods to crack it.

If the husband's family is taboo about these things, it is suggested that you can discuss with your husband before deciding whether to go back to your parents' house.