What do parents talk about before marriage? What should parents pay attention to when meeting?

If a relationship comes to the point of talking about marriage, both husband and wife will let their parents meet, so what do parents talk about before marriage? What should parents pay attention to before meeting? Is there anything that needs to be discussed in person?

1. What do parents talk about before marriage?

1, bride price and dowry

It is inevitable that parents will meet to discuss bride price and dowry before marriage, and some couples will even break up because of these problems and come to an end. When parents meet, they will discuss these issues and see how to deal with them properly.

2. Wedding related matters

When parents meet, they will also agree on wedding-related matters, such as wedding date, wedding place and wedding scale. These are not things that prospective couples can decide. After all, besides completing a grand ceremony, there is also a very realistic problem, that is, collecting money, which is inevitable.

For an auspicious wedding day, some traditional and picky families even calculate the date of birth of the prospective couple to see what is the right date, which is beneficial to their marriage life. The other is the wedding, which depends on whether two people plan the wedding together or whether the man holds the wedding and the woman holds a thank-you banquet.

Second, the problems that parents should pay attention to when meeting.

1, communicate with parents in advance.

Before parents meet for the first time, it is necessary to introduce each other's family situation so that both parents can have a preliminary understanding.

2. Pre-preparation

It's best to keep in touch with each other's parents and keep a good relationship when dating. Attention is conducive to the smooth progress of the first meeting between parents

Step 3 reach a tacit understanding

Newcomers should ventilate before their parents meet for the first time, so that both sides have certain preparation and understanding and strive for a certain tacit understanding when their parents meet for the first time.