What do you mean, married?

There are many customs and exquisite wedding ceremonies in China, and there are also many related terms that people don't know. Like getting married. Maybe when I first heard this term, I said I didn't understand it like Sister Xi. Never mind, Sister Xi will popularize it for you!

First, the meaning of marriage.

Getting married well, also known as sending dates, reading Japanese characters, speaking, posting to women, asking questions, giving gifts, checking dates, sending wedding cards, etc. It is also an invitation period in ancient times. At present, "seeing off" means that the man pulls the matchmaker and relatives to the woman's house for dinner and sends a certain amount of gift money (the amount of gift money varies from place to place), and the representative informs the woman that both parties can set a wedding date for a certain day. Play a role in determining the date of marriage.

Second, pay attention to getting married.

1. Marriage is divided into three steps: good, optimistic and good. A good marriage is to choose an auspicious day recognized by both parties before marriage, such as Valentine's Day, June 6th, Tanabata and so on, and then ask the matchmaker to go to the woman's house to bring back the woman's zodiac and eight characters. The woman's family wrote down the birthday of the bride to be married on a red note and gave it to the matchmaker to take back to the man's family. According to the woman's date of birth, it is better for people who understand the date of birth to choose to get married in Yue Ji.

2, get married, this is not only a good day to send a wedding, but also the man has to send a dowry to the woman. Most of the bride price is red clothes and shoes, as well as three gold, modern household appliances and other items. They are wrapped in red bags and planted with cypress branches, which means "longevity". Sending a good day is also a good day. At this time, the man's family will also send lottery coins as the bride's dowry. "Tongri" should be held 40 days before marriage. After giving birth, the woman should stay with her parents and stay at home.

3. Optimistic about marriage is mainly to find out the wedding month, auspicious day, the location of XiShen, and at the same time, to find out the taboos of people who see off their relatives. In other words, look at taboos and conflicts.

The taboo song for seeing off relatives is: "Chen Ziwu avoids snakes, chickens, cows, ugly tigers, horse dogs, pigs, rabbits, sheep, dragons, rats and monkeys." In the first half of the month, the beautiful Yue Ji can be determined after the woman chooses to avoid the woman's menstrual period. I will write a marriage certificate and send it to my wife's house when I choose an auspicious day. This is a good pass.

So after the above explanation, do you understand the meaning of marriage? If you want to read more articles about marriage, you can visit our wedding in official website!