Taboos within 0/00 days after the death of a loved one/kloc.

Taboos within 0/00 days after the death of a loved one/kloc.

It is a sad news for us to be banned within 0/00 days after the death of a loved one. But there are many things that we can't do within 100 days after the death of our loved ones. This is not superstition, but traditional custom. Let's share the taboos within 100 days after the death of a loved one. Let's have a look.

Taboo 1 After the death of relatives first 100 days, the taboo of burying the deceased.

1, the date of funeral is forbidden to choose the day of heavy mourning.

The death of a relative is a very sad thing. It would be even worse for everyone if the time and date of the funeral were chosen on the day of mourning.

Another meaning is that the day of heavy mourning means more than one funeral. It refers to the situation that someone in his family or relatives dies one after another within 100 days or one year after death.

2, the coffin taboo with willow.

Willows are forbidden in coffins. According to legend, it is because the willow tree does not bear fruit and is worried that it will never be seen again.

Second, it is forbidden to use satin fabrics in the clothing of the deceased.

Old people are used to calling the clothes they wear after death "shroud". After the age of 60, some old people began to prepare shroud.

There is some pressure on the number and structure of shroud for the elderly. For example, the number of shroud is generally odd, one, three, five, seven and so on. For shroud fabrics, it is best not to choose satin fabrics, because satin is homophonic, meaning whether there is a child or not, which is taboo.

Third, during the period of filial piety, it is forbidden to visit relatives and friends, especially to attend happy events.

Within 0/00 days of the death of immediate family members, it is best to be filial at home. Don't travel, visit relatives and friends, etc. unless necessary. So as not to bring your sadness to others. Especially some happy events, it is best not to attend. You can entrust someone else to bring it, apologize by phone, and most people can understand.

Fourth, during the period of filial piety, children should avoid wearing red and green.

During the mourning period, ancient children paid attention to wearing filial piety and white mourning clothes within 100 days; After a hundred days, wear dark clothes such as black and blue to show filial piety, and avoid wearing red and green heavy makeup. Of course, if you have to do it for work reasons, it is understandable, but it is better to avoid it.

Five, during the period of filial piety, children should not participate in recreational activities.

In ancient times, when parents died, children generally had to observe filial piety for three years. During these three years, marriage and auspicious celebrations are not allowed.

In ancient times, people who paid attention to "ruling the world with filial piety" and served as officials, no matter how big their officials were, had to take time off to go back to their ancestral homes to observe filial piety after their parents died, which was called "Ding You". If officials don't go back to their hometowns to observe filial piety, they may be impeached by the censor, punished, or even never hired. If an official gets married, has children, breaks up, has fun, etc. During his anxiety, he will be regarded as unfilial and impeached.

In modern society, many people shorten the time of filial piety to one year or even less, but they are afraid that their children will have fun.

In the first year, the immediate family members died, so it is forbidden to post red couplets before the Spring Festival.

Sticking red couplets during the Spring Festival is a custom in most parts of China. However, if a family member dies, it is forbidden to post red couplets in front of the door during the first Spring Festival.

Now that society is more open, people are not as taboo as before, but you'd better pay attention to these customs introduced above.

Two things you must never do after the death of your lover 100 days.

First, no relatives when you die.

In the old society, people attached great importance to carrying on the family line, thinking that when the old man died, there must be descendants present, so that when the old man left, he was sent away and was not alone. Old people don't have to worry all the time in the underworld, and their souls can get peace. If the old man dies in front of all his relatives, it is the greatest blessing. According to legend, Bai people think that the old man died in the arms of his children and grandchildren, which is what they thanked for raising him, commonly known as "receiving gas".

Second, taboo to let the dead streaking.

Many places in the north emphasize that the deceased should be dressed neatly before his death, and the deceased should not be allowed to run naked. Therefore, in the old society, when the old people reached a certain age, their children and grandchildren often prepared shroud for them in leap month, so that the old people could look at it with confidence. The quantity and texture of the shroud are very particular. The number of pieces should be odd, such as five pieces, seven pieces and nine pieces, and avoid even numbers for fear of disaster coming again; In terms of material, satin is forbidden, because "satin" is homophonic with "broken", and silk is used more, because "silk" is homophonic with "thick", which means blessing future generations; Shrouds can't be made of fur yet, for fear of becoming beasts in the afterlife.

Third, the taboo of burial:

1. Don't cry on the corpse when you leave. When buried, relatives should temporarily hold back their sadness and control their tears so as not to spill them on their bodies.

2. Before and after the funeral, it is forbidden for cats and dogs to get close to the corpse, which is considered to cause the deceased to suddenly stand upright or become a zombie.

3, the coffin is taboo to use willow. The coffin is made of pine and cypress, which is forbidden in Vitamin. Because pine and cypress symbolize longevity, willow trees will not bear seeds and may never see them again.

Fourth, the taboo of mourning.

In the funeral home, white cloth and white paper should be hung on the gate to let people know that someone in the family has passed away, and send a message to relatives in other places or overseas so that children can hear the news and attend the funeral. Among them, it is especially prudent to report the funeral to the relatives in marriage. After the parents died and the date of the funeral was fixed, the dutiful son was going to visit relatives. During the funeral, be careful that the dutiful son does not enter the house, kneel outside and salute first, and report the news of his parents' death and the time of the funeral to his relatives.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) funeral date and choice of cemetery

The ancients thought that the soul would not go far at once after death, and death would involve many matters, so the ancients paid special attention to the choice of funeral date to avoid a series of misfortunes. The choice of cemetery has been very particular since ancient times. It is generally believed that the quality of a cemetery is directly related to the wealth and good fortune of future generations. In the old society, there were ten folk songs about the taboo of choosing a tomb: 1. Don't bury rough and stubborn stones; 2. Don't bury the beachhead; 3. Don't bury the ditch source and despair; 4. Don't bury the left and right prisoners; 7. Don't bury the hills and hills; 8. Don't bury the feng shui worries; 9. Don't bury the dragon and tiger tips. So please ask professionals to choose the date of the funeral and the cemetery with good feng shui.

Six, taboo after burial

After the deceased is buried, mourners should walk around the tomb for three weeks, and avoid looking back on the way home to prevent the ghost of the deceased from following the living home.

7. It is forbidden to visit relatives and friends during mourning.

Children should not visit relatives and friends, get together, pay New Year greetings, and especially don't go to patients' homes during the mourning period, so as not to bring misfortune to others. As the saying goes, "Dress filial, don't go next door."

Eight, during the mourning period, children should not wear colorful clothes.

After parents die, children should be filial to their parents. In ancient times, they usually had to be filial for three years. Modern time is shortened, but it should not be less than one year. During the mourning period, children are forbidden to wear colorful clothes, make up heavily and drink and have fun.