Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - Wu Junru Chen Kexin's children are 9 years old, but they didn't get the certificate. Do you think marriage certificate can represent love?

Wu Junru Chen Kexin's children are 9 years old, but they didn't get the certificate. Do you think marriage certificate can represent love?

Marriage certificate is not directly related to love. In my opinion, a marriage certificate never represents anything, let alone love. And with the progress of the times, more and more people have their own ideas about marriage. Compared with the ancient marriage, it is just the words of parents' matchmakers. As long as both parents decide and choose a good day, the two will get married. Now people have their own views on love and marriage, no longer.

Therefore, in fact, more and more people are unwilling to step into the palace of marriage, and marriage is dubbed the grave of love. More and more people just enjoy the process of love and don't want to step into marriage. I have to say that love and marriage are two completely different processes. Maybe you and your lover get along very well when they are in love, and have many common topics, so you have imagined a beautiful marriage life countless times, but after you really step into marriage, you find it is completely different from what you imagined.

When we are in love, our daily life is always full of all kinds of beautiful and romantic things. Boys may try to study what gifts to give girls every holiday. As soon as two people meet, they will take girls everywhere to play, go on dates, travel and enjoy all the beautiful things in this world. Girls usually appear more gentle and shy than usual when they are in love. When falling in love, both parties will try their best to show their better and more perfect side in front of each other and let each other see their better self.

But marriage is not like this at all. Once you enter the marriage hall, it means that you are ready to spend your life with each other. At this time, some of your unexposed shortcomings will gradually emerge, so getting married will expose more realistic things, so some people just enjoy the romance of love and don't want to get married. This idea is understandable. As long as both parties in love accept it, it seems to me that it is ok.