Nanjing wedding customs, what should we pay attention to in Nanjing wedding?

The day before the wedding, the bride and groom are generally not allowed to meet, because it is a Nanjing custom to meet unlucky ~ ~ ~

There will be several tables in the man's house, commonly known as warm house wine, mainly relatives and friends of the man's house, usually 4 or 5 tables ~ ~

After that, I need a little boy to press the bed at night, usually a relative baby of the man's family (now many people also choose to press the bed doll) ~ ~ ~

There will be some red dates, peanuts and longan lotus seeds under the bed of the new house, which means early birth ~ ~ ~

The bed in the new house can only let the groom and the baby who presses the bed sleep that night, and no one else can sleep ~ ~ ~