What if the marriage is not smooth?

First, the wedding date should be auspicious.

With the accumulation of more and more experience, I have a good understanding of the judgment of the wedding date, and the probability can reach more than 75%. To put it bluntly, judging the wedding date is very simple, that is, when the eight characters are in place, this person can get money as an official (men get money, women get money), but there are also mistakes. I tried to find out the reasons for my mistakes in many ways, and finally found an interesting phenomenon from many cases of unsatisfactory marriage: some marriages were unsatisfactory, and some just got married in the unfavorable year of avoiding god. For example, men are jealous of money, and women are jealous of officials. Most of them are doomed love, most of them marry an inappropriate person at an inappropriate time, and the final result is naturally bad. Therefore, before young men and women get married, it is best to choose a suitable wedding date and try to choose a period that is beneficial to both sides. For example, in the year of the eight-character god's reign, it happened that this person was proud of the spring breeze. Getting married at this time, this person has a good heart and mind, which is bound to be the icing on the cake. If in the year when the eight characters are taboo, it is precisely when this person is physically and mentally exhausted and has many troubles, it is not appropriate to get married at this time. For example, men avoid money all their lives and get married in a prosperous year. In the eight characters, money represents father, wife, woman or money. Money is jealous of money, and Bing Xu represents bad luck. This is also the reason why some people get married after losing their father or getting injured this year, or get married but lose money. Just think, getting married is a great event in one's life. Most people attach great importance to it and will choose to hold a grand wedding. If you just broke the bank, or are in bad luck or physical illness, getting married with debt or illness will naturally leave a shadow on your later life, resulting in the final bad results.

Second, choose a spouse to get married.

A person who is not married is particularly unlucky. When he is married, he will meet many different types of the opposite sex. Marriage pays attention to fate, but fate, to put it bluntly, is whether the two sides can find similarities in their respective preferences. For example, a jealous female character who is cruel to officials is full of affection and romance. If she meets a man who is equally prosperous, she may be like-minded and fall in love at first sight. If a mouse meets a monkey. Because this man is full of golden water, he is naturally a romantic and affectionate floating elf. As a bosom friend, he can appreciate each other, but as a husband and wife who have been together for a long time, it is not necessarily appropriate. On the contrary, if a jealous and prosperous woman meets a rich man, he is stubborn and ignorant of amorous feelings, but he is loyal and reliable, which can provide a broad shoulder and harbor for an affectionate little woman. Water is surrounded by thick soil, which can't be flooded, and the soil is soaked by soft water, which brings out the best in each other and can reach the whole country.

Men who have the same hard life and can bear it, the iron colander and the copper spoon are in the same pot, restraining each other and complementing each other, and neither side will be damaged. Therefore, it is very necessary for the constellation with unsatisfactory marriage to choose a spouse to get married.

Third, accumulate virtue and do good deeds, which is beneficial to marriage.

I once met a woman. This man's life hurt the official blade, and the eight characters collided. At first glance, the marriage is not smooth, but in fact, this person and her husband have a good relationship and a happy marriage. It turns out that this man is a doctor in obstetrics and gynecology. He has delivered babies countless times, and he has a good heart and numerous virtues. Coupled with the knife delivery, it virtually solved the cruelty of the injured official and the blade, and was blessed by God, so it was possible to get a good marriage. If you can do good to outsiders at ordinary times, you will naturally be good to the people around you. In the long run, if we cultivate our own self-cultivation, both sides can care about and understand each other, and the unhappy marriage will be stable.

Fourth, take the initiative to be honest.

If your life has been calculated, you will know the unfavorable trend and unfavorable year of your marriage in advance. Wealth represents money or women in men's horoscope. If you are afraid of hurting your wife, you can take the initiative to break the money, such as donating money to charity, buying real estate and buying items that you were reluctant to give up before. That is to say, in the year of financial ruin, if one side of financial representative breaks out artificially in advance, the disaster on the other side of financial representative can be resolved and reduced. This is commonly known as the principle of breaking money and avoiding disasters.

Fifth, appropriate separation.

Generally speaking, the sun and moon branches collide with each other, especially the official stars (wealth stars) and spouse's palace, which makes marriage difficult. However, I have encountered several exceptions, and the feedback said that the relationship between husband and wife has always been very good, and they have never quarreled. It turns out that the husband and wife are separated. The husband earns money in other places for work reasons, and the wife looks after the children at home, and goes home once a month on average. Usually, they pour out their thoughts at intervals. Therefore, it can be inferred that the more intimate couples are, the greater their tolerance will be. If they can be separated for a period of time in bad times, they can survive the unfavorable marriage crisis, and then they can love each other as always.

Sixth, resolve it from feng shui.

In the process of showing people Feng Shui, I found that apart from the eight characters, some residential feng shui will also affect marriage. For men, if there is a big gap between the earthquake position, the root position or the ridge position of the house, and there are unclean things placed, then marriage will be difficult. As far as women are concerned, if there are water-related things such as wells, water towers, ponds, baths or waterworks in the exchange position, dry position or Kun position of the house, she will inevitably become a "leftover woman" despite her beautiful appearance. There is also a residential feng shui, the room has a column angle. Whether men and women live in it, it is not good for their love and marriage. Another is that the bedroom door is facing the door, the bedside is decorated with flower arrangement or the wall is pink, which makes it easy for married strangers to indulge in peach blossoms and have extramarital affairs. Over time, the two sides will part ways and the family will be broken. Therefore, paying more attention to residential feng shui and adjusting the layout in time can also change the unhappy state of marriage.