Family education method

Love for children should be stable, not sunny and cloudy for a while. Parents should be filial to their parents and let their children feel that their home is full of love. Parents should be role models worth learning. The following are the family education methods I have compiled for you. Welcome to refer to them ~

Methods of family education. Parental care is the cornerstone of children's self-confidence.

Parents should express their love for their children and let them feel the love from their parents all the time, so that they will be more confident no matter what they do.

My daughter often plays all kinds of strange faces and asks me: If she looks like this, do I love her? Or if she lacks an eye, or has no legs or arms, do I still love her? Once when she asked me this question again, I didn't tell her the answer directly, but told her a story: "An angel came into this world and said to a mother, I have a gift, and I want you to help me give it to the cutest child in the world. After a while, the angel came again and asked his mother if she had given a gift to the cutest child. Mother said, I looked around and thought my child was the cutest, so I gave the gift to my child. " Through this story, I let my daughter know that whether she is beautiful or not, she is the cutest and most beautiful in the eyes of her parents.

After her daughter went to school, she began to worry about what to do with her poor academic performance. I often ask, mom, if I don't study well and get the first place in my class, do you still love me? I always tell her without hesitation that the first place in the exam is not the key, but whether you work hard or not. As long as you work hard, no matter which place you get in the exam, mom will love you and cheer for you!

Second, self-confidence needs the publicity of personality. In daily life, give children more opportunities to show themselves.

My daughter likes singing since she was a child and has a good memory. Before the cartoon was finished, the ending song of the theme song began to sing and dance.

Once, her father's unit held a "August 1" celebration, and the soldiers were singing blindly. Her father encouraged her to sing a song on stage, and her daughter's song "Invisible Wings" won everyone's applause before it was over.

We encouraged our daughter to sing boldly after discovering this specialty. For the first time, she participated in Changji Children's Singer Karaoke TV Competition, and her five-year-old daughter won the third prize in the children's group. Since then, our daughter's hobbies have been out of control, and she is willing to sing on any occasion, and she does not have stage fright when singing. She also said that she really wanted to participate in the children's program of CCTV's Baby Family. Teacher Liu's comment "You are versatile" made her beautiful for a long time during the winter vacation. She told me confidently that she should not only be versatile in the future, but also help the teacher manage the class as the teacher said.

Children need to be discovered and affirmed when they grow up, especially those who don't know themselves well, and they need to be appreciated by others. Children's hobbies become specialties, which stems from the encouragement and support of parents. Don't be afraid of children's pride. Children will show their personality in publicity. At this time, teachers and parents should proudly say to her, "You are great!"

Third, grasp small links to improve children's self-confidence in learning.

When my daughter first went to school, she gestured to me with her hand because she was not quick in mental arithmetic. Her interest in Chinese is no less than that of an elephant, and her interest in mathematics is second only to that of a watermelon. One day, after she came back, she said happily to me, "Mom, Teacher Ding made me a math committee member of the first group today!" " "I asked," why? " She said, "I don't know. Maybe I am serious in class. " I quickly said, "the math study Committee must be good at math." She asked me nervously, "Does Teacher Ding Na know that I am not interested in learning mathematics?" I said, "Teacher Ding not only doesn't know, but must think that your interest in mathematics is still great! ""She said seriously, "Now, I want to study math, and I must make my interest in learning math bigger." With the encouragement of teachers and us, in the process of collecting large groups of math homework every day, her enthusiasm for learning math is gradually rising. Sometimes, when I do some math problems with my brain, I will happily say, "Mom, I was wrong to do such problems before, but now I am right." I think math used to be quite interesting! " During the winter vacation, she asked me to buy her a first-grade math exercise paper, and sometimes she was very enthusiastic. She has to do several papers a day, so that her father and I can correct them carefully to see if she has made progress. At the beginning of this semester, I took her to the bookstore. She said to me, "Mom, buy me a workbook to strengthen the application problems. I'm a math Commissioner, but I don't think I can learn application problems well. " We made full use of the opportunity of "the teacher asked her to undertake the task of accepting a large group of math homework" to encourage her. Now, she has confidence in learning mathematics and her interest in learning mathematics is getting stronger and stronger.

Fourth, when children are frustrated, give them encouragement of love in time.

A hug, a kiss and an encouraging word can help children regain their confidence.

After her daughter goes to school, she is especially looking forward to wearing a red scarf one day earlier. But when the teacher announced that she had joined the team, she found that her daughter's self-confidence was hit by the lack of her own name. After returning home, he told me with tears: "mom, I think I study hard, too." Why didn't I join the team this time? Does the teacher dislike me? "

I suddenly realized that the process of children's growth was so smooth that I hardly suffered too many setbacks. You can't grow up without setbacks, but you must guide your children in time and correctly, and don't let them be knocked down by setbacks. I held my daughter in my arms and said to her, "You didn't wear a red scarf this time. Mom thinks it's not that the teacher doesn't like you. It must be that you haven't done anything well! " The daughter thought for a moment and said, "Am I not active enough to answer questions in class?" Because my daughter is a child who pursues perfection and is too cautious, I know that my daughter is not very active in answering questions in class and always raises her hand when she thinks she can get 100% right.

After listening to my daughter's words, I thought it was a good opportunity, so I said, "Yes, although you are serious in class and homework, you are not bold enough to answer questions, which will also affect your joining the team." Think about what you haven't done well. "The daughter said," Mom, I can't remember. Why not ask Teacher Liu! " "My daughter is always careful, afraid that the teacher will beg me for anything. Let me ask the teacher. I took the opportunity to say: you dare not ask the teacher, you are timid. This is also a shortcoming, which will definitely affect joining the team. "

In order to join the team one day earlier, my daughter finally got up the courage to ask Miss Liu why she didn't join the team. When teacher Liu kindly told her that "it is not enough to join the team by studying hard on your own, but also to help other students and care more about the class group", first of all, her daughter confirmed that she did not join the team because the teacher didn't like it. Secondly, she knows where she needs to work hard. Later, when it was her turn to be the group leader, I took the opportunity to say, "Look, Miss Liu gave you an opportunity to help your classmates and care about your class. Mom believes that you will do well! " With the encouragement of teachers and parents, my daughter is also very happy. The little notebook carefully records the homework that the players hand in every day. Although the handwriting is immature, I feel that my daughter is happier and more confident than before.

No matter how busy I go home every day, I always take time to listen to my daughter talk about her study and life at school. As long as I hear her raise her hand and wait for a little progress in her study, or the team leader gets a little happiness in serving everyone, I will encourage her and give her a high five. Finally, one day, when I said I wanted to ask Miss Liu something, my daughter volunteered, "Mom, by the way, ask Miss Liu. I have recently answered questions. I know that with her personality, let me take the initiative to ask the teacher about his situation at school. I'm sure I feel good about myself Sure enough, Mr. Liu said that he had changed a lot recently, and he was much more active in answering questions in class than before.

Later, the teacher arranged for her to take charge of her large group of exercise books and remember the texts. Every once in a while, her classmates would call her to ask her homework. She feels that the teacher has a great responsibility for her small officials and plays an important role in the class group. She can help everyone, she is no worse than others, and her daughter has found her confidence again.

Confidence comes from the hint of success, and fear comes from the hint of failure. Once people's positive hints are formed, they will help you succeed just like sailing; On the other hand, the formation of negative psychological suggestion, which cannot be eliminated in time, will affect the success of life.

The cultivation of self-confidence is not achieved overnight, it requires the close cooperation and persistent efforts of parents and teachers. Although there is still a big gap between my daughter's self-confidence now and my expected goal, I believe that as long as the method is proper and persistent, she will become more and more confident.

What are the excellent qualities of family education methods derived from the infiltration of parents' wisdom?

1, teach children to smile, smile to face everything in life, smile to face life. Don't always be serious about children, but laugh with them more: because laughter can make children love life more.

2. Use civilized expressions at home, such as "Good morning, please, thank you, good night" and so on.

3. Pay attention to cultivating children's kindness. The ancients said: don't do evil, don't do good.

4. Listen to your child's voice with patience, love and happiness! You know, the heart is connected!

5, never say that children are worse than other children, and never punish children in an insulting way! Don't criticize and laugh at children in public, so as not to cause psychological deformity and lose self-confidence; More can't always expose children's scars in order to remind them. However, for children's mistakes, we must seriously point out!

6. Don't praise your child too much, lest your child develop the bad habit of "fishing for fame". Guide children to look at things positively, easily and happily.

7. Don't scare children easily, so as not to cause children to be too timid; Don't be too strict with children, lest they be afraid and shy to express their views and develop a personality of being ambitious.

8. Spend half an hour communicating with children every day; Tell stories to children patiently. The story has certain educational significance.

9, in the process of children's growth, constantly looking for places worthy of praise, combined with children's performance, at least one question about children's growth every day.

10, care for children, but appropriate punishment is also needed, don't cover up your weaknesses. Education is not necessarily just reasonable, and sometimes some tough measures can be taken as appropriate.

1 1, let children set up lofty goals correctly from an early age, and their idols should be positive figures.

12, give children some space and freedom, but also give them some pressure and responsibility!

13, it is very beneficial to educate children in art, cultivate their elegant aesthetic taste, pay attention to guiding and enriching their perceptual knowledge, and deepen their emotional experience of nature.

14, for children in early childhood, don't let them live with their grandparents for a long time. Although the next generation is closer, it is really bad for education (it may not be scientific, but it is absolutely applicable).

15, explain to the child that he is already very cute, so don't think about showing yourself everywhere.

16, let children develop good hygiene habits; Don't advise children to do bad things, such as fighting back, not giving others their own food, not buying tickets by car and so on.

17, don't make a wish for your child casually, and try your best to realize the promised thing. Don't force children to realize their unfulfilled ideals.

18, always put yourself in others' shoes! Parents should always put themselves in their children's shoes. What would I be like if I were a child?

Squat down, hold the child's hand and grow up happily with the child.

Our fundamental goal is to cultivate children into healthy people and let them live a happy life. Therefore, we should pay more attention to children's emotional needs while caring about their physical health. No matter how busy you are, you should pay attention to taking time to communicate with your children. Don't let children always look up at you, let them feel that you are always above; We might as well bend down, hold the child's hand and walk with the child. Only by communicating with them in time can we understand their true inner thoughts; Patiently listen to your child talk to you about the troubles and puzzles in your study and life, and give useful suggestions.

Give children some private space and time and encourage them to do what they want; Give them the opportunity and right to choose, let them choose their own partners and friends freely, and let children often have the opportunity to be with his companions; Of course, it is very important for us to know who our children have friends. If other children have bad behavior, they should be guided in time.

Encourage children not to rely on adults as much as possible, create some difficulties in life, and spend it with children. Let the child do some housework within his power, such as washing his clothes and boiling water to cook, so that he can realize that he is a member of the family. Prepare a display stand for children to show their own products.

Take seriously the serious questions and opinions raised by children, treat children as adults, get along on an equal footing, and treat children as friends. Don't label your child as "stupid", but discover your child's small progress in time and encourage him in time; Discover the child's small progress in time and appreciate the child. Pay attention to your child's progress at any time and let your child know your progress! Learn to praise children sincerely, instead of saying "you are so smart" like a pet.

Remember, I often say to my children: I love you, you are my forever baby! Try to kiss your child, hug him (her) and touch his (her) head, so that your child can feel your love!