I want to get married in May or June, 20 1 1. Who can help me choose a good day?

Xi 'er Marriage Community teaches you how to choose an auspicious day;

1, choose Runnian Runyue. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.

2. Avoid March, July and September. It is best to avoid auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

3. avoid three niang sand. According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao, especially ruined the couple's wedding, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

4. Marriage and date selection method. The principle of choosing the date of marriage is to take the date of birth of the bride as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries a girl". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it will be a great success.

5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays. In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.

6. Real wedding day. If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.

7. Good days and auspicious days. Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people would rather see the date chosen by the Yellow Calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.

8. We should consider the reality of both sides' work and study. If one party is studying in his spare time, avoid the tense review date; If one party is involved in the entrepreneurial project day and night, the other party must wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day" when the good news comes.

9. Consider the reality of two families. Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly and relatives and friends have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.

10, considering the physical condition of both parties. If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the opinions of the woman.

1 1, unify the wedding date and holidays. If the wedding date is unified with holidays, it may be wise. The advantages of doing this are: deep memory; Newly married people put on festive clothes to add interest; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home. However, there are many new people who get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.

12, the definition of a good day. In any case, the definition of "good days" is always different. No matter which day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.

Besides, it's not as difficult as you think to choose an auspicious day to get married. The general principle is: day is more important than month, and month is more important than year. Blind years also have auspicious days. Don't pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and unnecessarily postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years.

Suggestions are as follows: First, choose the wedding season according to the envisaged wedding form and local climate characteristics. For example, if you want to hold an outdoor wedding, you should choose a sunny and rainy season with suitable heat and cold. At the same time, we should also consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite are not working locally, then choose the long holidays such as November and May Day. Of course, we should also consider the work and study situation of both parties, and try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or during the project research stage. Finally, you can't ignore the opinions of your elders!

Based on the above factors, after selecting the approximate range, you can choose the date according to the birthdays of two people. It is suggested to use the wedding zodiac auspicious date inquiry system (the wedding zodiac auspicious date inquiry system in Xi 'er wedding community is a good choice), and choose the appropriate wedding date according to the birthdays of both parties. Every day has a detailed explanation of when it is suitable to avoid marriage.