What are the rules for marrying a daughter in Shandong?

Shandong wedding rules are as follows:

1, Shandong pays attention to marriage: choose a date. Choosing a date is to choose an auspicious day and then arrange an engagement or marriage. Whether you are getting married or doing something important in Shandong, you should choose a good day. So basically every household will have a yellow calendar, which records the taboos in various periods. This is not a feudal superstition, but a traditional custom.

2. Shandong pays attention to marriage: engagement. Before marrying a daughter-in-law, Shandong people need to get engaged. Engagement requires the approval of both parents, and engagement also requires banquets for guests from all over the world. When engaged, the man needs to give the woman a certain amount of money. There is no fixed amount of engagement fee, which can be decided according to the actual situation.

3. Shandong pays attention to marriage: step on the cake. When the groom takes the wedding team to pick up the bride, the bride needs to step on the cake wrapped in red when she gets off the bus, which means that she is promoted step by step. Moreover, the cake stepped on by the bride is jubilant and will generally be distributed to relatives and friends, especially children. Eating this cake will mean growing taller.

4. Shandong pays attention to marriage: sealing red envelopes. Weddings nowadays are generally western-style. The groom wears a suit and tie, the bride wears a white wedding dress, and the master of ceremonies will be invited to preside over the wedding. It is also a tradition that the bride changes her name to her parents and the groom's parents will give her a big red envelope.

5. Shandong pays attention to marriage: returning to the door. Three days after the wedding, the groom will accompany the bride back to her parents' house, but she can't stay at her parents' house for the night. The couple must go back before dark. Everyone should pay attention to this matter.