There is a saying in the countryside that "men depend on their lives and women depend on their wedding day". Is it reasonable? Does man's fate depend on God's will?

I think it makes sense. In rural areas, there are many proverbs handed down from generation to generation, but in our generation, young people really know very little, basically nothing, because this generation of young people basically study and work in cities and spend few days in rural areas, so they don't know much about this. Of course, it is very interesting to learn more about these proverbs and customs.

1. "A man depends on his own life, and a woman depends on her own wedding date."

In the past, whether you were born or married to a woman, it was very important to live a good life. When a person is born, whether it is spring, summer, autumn and winter or when his son is ugly, there is a very particular point, so there is an interesting saying in the countryside about when a boy was born.

A woman's wedding day means that when a girl reaches a certain age, she must choose an auspicious day to get married, because marriage is a big event and a happy event. According to the girl's birth date, choosing an auspicious day means a happy life in the future, so this is not only a custom circulating in rural areas, but also a cultural tradition in China for thousands of years.

My life is up to me.

Of course, it is very outrageous to decide a person's future only by these auspicious days, but in any case, these proverbs all imply good intentions and good wishes, and are cultural traditions summarized by the ancients through their own life experience and wisdom.

Therefore, as contemporary young people, their destiny is in their own hands. In addition to learning and understanding these interesting historical customs, we should also work hard and constantly learn to enrich ourselves.

Therefore, there is some truth in the rural saying that "men depend on their lives and women depend on their wedding days", because no matter whether they are born or married, they definitely want to have a good wish on the auspicious day of the zodiac, but if they are linked to fate, it is meaningless.