Before marriage, the man informs the woman's family of the wedding time, commonly known as the expected date of delivery.

Send the day, also known as watching the day, passing the day, sending it well, talking, posting, asking, giving gifts, checking the day and sending it.

Marriage card is an ancient invitation period. Invitation, originally just the wedding date chosen by the man, asks the woman to agree, in the mountains.

In some parts of the East, bride price is also given. The invitation period of Juancheng is divided into three steps: good, good and good.

Quite representative. It is best to choose an auspicious day before marriage, such as February 2, April 8 and June 6.

On the second day of the month, the matchmaker went to the woman's house to ask for her zodiac sign and eight characters. The woman wrote "Kun Ming X" in red paper.

Date of birth, give it to the matchmaker and take it back to the man's home. According to the woman's birthday, the man asked to choose.

Married Yue Ji is optimistic. Optimism is mainly about finding the right wedding month, auspicious day and the location of XiShen.

At the same time, it is also necessary to calculate the taboos of those who greet their loved ones in the zodiac. There used to be many songs to sing along with, such as Calculation.

"Wedding Moon Song" is: "Zheng and Qi welcome chickens and rabbits, 28 tigers and monkeys, 39 snakes and pigs, and 40 dragons and dogs.

Cattle and sheep five, eleven, rats and horses six, twelve. The taboo song of "Wedding Ceremony and seeing off the relatives" is: "Chen Zi applied to avoid snakes, chickens and cows,

You are ugly, avoid tigers, horses, dogs, pigs, rabbits and sheep in the afternoon, and avoid dragons, rats and monkeys in the sea. "auspicious day generally choose two, one.

One in the first half of the month and one in the second half, which is decided by the woman's choice, in order to avoid the woman's menstrual period. choose

Set an auspicious day, write a marriage certificate and send it to the woman's house. The content and format of marriage certificate are as follows:

Listen to Kun's instructions and choose the wedding date.

1 I choose to marry Li Yue.

* Year * Month * Day, all season.

2, married to send male and female guests, avoid.

X stage, good luck

3. get on and off, facing the x direction.

Welcome XiShen. Good luck.

4. It is appropriate for Anlu to sit on the account and use the XX room.

5. Wear the laurel crown for Party X, and wish you good luck.

Sit on a book and pay tribute to the gods in the square. Good luck.

6. When you meet wells, stones and temples on the road, you will be covered with bonuses. Good luck.

Heaven and earth, Xianheng celebration, from now on happiness, long life and wealth.

X year x month x day

"Good" is not only a good day to send a wedding, but also a bride price for the woman. Most of the betrothal gifts are red shirts and blue shirts

Coat, ring, pendant, belt, etc. They are all wrapped in red bags and planted with cypress branches, which means "longevity" approach

In Qing dynasty, it was called "date checking", and the man formally informed the woman of the wedding date and attached a "wedding invitation" (also called "total").

Above the post "), write the bride's dress, dress, direction and time of getting on and off the sedan chair. Laiyang, Mou

On an equal footing, the delivery day is also called Tongri, and the man's family also sends colored coins to the woman's family as a dowry. "Tongri" must marry the top four.

After more than ten days of bimonthly travel, the woman has never been out and is going to get married at home. When Laiyang was in Tongri, the man thought

Make a big sesame cake and send it to the woman's house, and the woman will return the big birthday peach. Sunshine is called asking questions and giving gifts, and the man sends the woman to work.

Gifts, the woman's return is simple, but the new son-in-law's shoes and hats are indispensable in the gifts, so the folks call the new son-in-law's hat.

This is a "husband's hat". Rizhao also called the ceremony of combining the opening ceremony with the next ceremony "knocking on the box". Lubei area

It's called "breaking the iron" and giving "floor money" as the bride's dowry.