Taboos and pressures on the wedding day

1, the law of choosing a date for marriage

The principle of wedding date selection method is to take the bride's date of birth as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the groom and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries a girl". According to the inversion or neglect of this principle, the analysis will lead to marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it will be a great success.

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2. auspicious day method

Nowadays, most newcomers read almanac directly or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi. Among them, some people think that there should be a stricter calculation method of auspicious time, that is, the most auspicious wedding time should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. But this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar.

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It's an auspicious day for the couple to get married.

3. Real wedding day

The date of marriage registration and the date of wedding ceremony are mostly separated. You'd better choose a good day of these two important days. If you are biased towards one side, according to tradition, the date of traditional etiquette to marry the bride and set the wine shall prevail. Because China tradition has always regarded the wedding day as a real wedding day.

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4. Choose Runnian Runyue

China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.

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Wedding invitation

5. unify the wedding date and holidays.

This arrangement has the commemorative significance of the festival, which increases the interest of the wedding and the impression of the guests. And on holidays, relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding. The atmosphere is warm, and it is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home and celebrate festivals. However, we should also pay attention to the unification of wedding dates and holidays: there are many new people getting married on holidays, so we should book hotels and motorcades in advance. In order to facilitate relatives and friends to attend the wedding and witness the happy scene.

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6. Don't choose your parents' birthdays

In the traditional customs of China, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that parents' birthdays are not suitable for marriage. If there are other good days this month, it is absolutely appropriate to get married.

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Classical formal dress

7. Consider the physical condition of both parties.

If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of their new life in the future, and more importantly, it is the easiest to aggravate their physical condition. It should also be noted that the wedding auspicious day should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. Both sides should listen to each other's opinions, especially the woman's.

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8. Consider the reality of both families.

Choosing an auspicious day to get married also needs to take care of the elderly on both sides. Consider the physical condition and distance of the elderly.

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Newcomer wine glass

9. Avoid Sannianzi

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

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10, avoid 379

March, July and September of the lunar calendar are best avoided. The so-called "379" coincides with "Tomb-Sweeping Day", "Magnolia" and "Respect for the Public" respectively in these three months. These are the traditional "ghost festivals" in China, and it is not appropriate to get married and hold a wedding. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

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