Why do old people say "men don't marry five, women don't marry six"?

Nowadays, marriage between men and women has become a big problem, but there is a saying among the elderly that "men don't marry five and women don't marry six". So what does this sentence mean? At first glance, this sentence seems a bit confusing. In fact, it means that boys can't marry these five kinds of women, while women can't marry these six kinds of men. This is the meaning of this proverb, which is heard more in rural areas.

In modern society, marriage has become a big problem to be solved urgently. On the one hand, the ratio between men and women is out of balance, on the other hand, with the improvement of people's cultural knowledge, their concept of life has also changed to some extent. But even so, in such a difficult marriage situation, although the old people are eager to have a daughter-in-law or granddaughter as soon as possible, they still insist that "men don't marry five and women don't marry six."

First of all, "men don't marry five" means that boys can't bring the following five kinds of women. The first is unfilial; The second is a woman who is not thrifty; The third is an unreasonable woman; The fourth is a woman who loves to importune; The fifth is a woman without proper limit. Indeed, if you meet these five kinds of women, family harmony will have great hidden dangers.

So what six kinds of men do "women don't marry six" refer to? The first is a man with bad hobbies; The second is lazy people; The third is a man who is not self-motivated; The fourth is a narrow-minded man; The fifth is a man who lacks sense of responsibility; The sixth kind is an arrogant man. Then, if the other half, especially the boy, as the head of the family, has the above six kinds of bad phenomena, then it is difficult for this family to be happy.