Can I get married in the first month?

Marriage in the first month can refer to the following three aspects.

1, by section

"The first month is the New Year, the first day of the New Year". In the first month, everyone knows that the New Year has arrived. There are festive and lively auspicious days such as the Spring Festival and Lantern Festival this month, so it is not bad to choose engagement this month. At the beginning of the new year, we decided to get engaged in order to have a happy ending for the newly-married couple's marriage, which is the so-called beginning and ending.

2. According to folk sayings.

There has always been a folk saying that "you don't marry on the first day of the twelfth lunar month". Some people think that you shouldn't get engaged and get married in the first month, otherwise it will have a bad omen. Some places say that getting engaged in the first month will be bad for her husband's family. If there is such a saying in the local area, it is recommended to discuss it with the elders at home.

3. According to local customs

Different regions have different wedding customs about whether they can get engaged in the first month. If there is a local saying that it is not good to get married in the first month, then respect the local customs. However, Bian Xiao believes that since the relationship between two people is very strong, it is ok to get engaged or get married whenever.

Third, what is the saying of getting married in the first month?

There are the following traditional sayings about getting married in the first month.

1, it is unlucky to get married in the first month.

In ancient times, people described the first month as "looking at the red". If men and women get married in the first month, it is called traditional pressure head, which is not good for children and grandchildren, so fewer people will get married this month.

2. unhappy.

The first month was called the "ghost wedding" season before the earliest, because the first month in the underworld, like the dead, is a festival, and everything in the underworld can come before the dead on this day.

There is also a saying that getting married in the first month is not conducive to family happiness and reunion.

Marriage is rarely in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagement is rarely in the twelfth month. Because marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month will hinder her in-laws, and betrothal in the twelfth month will defeat her in-laws, people will not choose to get married in these days, but no matter when they get married, they must choose a good day.

Third, pay attention to getting married in the first month.

The first month of marriage has the following pressures.

1, avoid going through weddings and funerals.

Although it is the Spring Festival, there will inevitably be white weddings and funerals, so try to avoid the intersection of red weddings and funerals. Of course, happy events and happy events cannot cross. If you choose a friend who got married before, try not to attend the wedding of a friend who got married after the Spring Festival.

2. Avoid traditional solar terms.

China has 24 solar terms. Generally speaking, couples should avoid traditional solar terms when they get married. There are two solar terms, beginning of spring and rain, which should be avoided during the Spring Festival.

3. Pay attention to the new parents' birthdays.

Pay attention to the constellation of the newlyweds' parents. This is about China's traditional choice of auspicious days. Generally speaking, we should pay attention to the birth dates and zodiac signs of newlyweds and parents.

Not getting married in the first month is just a traditional superstition. Couples who want to get married in the first month only need to choose an auspicious day.

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