How to solve the problem of mutual harm between pigs and monkeys is the most effective?

As the saying goes, "pigs can't reach their heads", and people who belong to the monkey genus are "caring for each other." People think that marriage is unhappy and can't last long. The solution is to choose an auspicious day when you get married, or find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to the mouse dragon if you are a monkey, or a best man or maid of honor who belongs to the rabbit sheep if you are a pig. You can also temporarily put a mouse or rabbit zodiac at home, in which monkeys wear mice and pigs wear rabbits.

However, my point is that now is a new society, and everyone's ideas should keep pace with the times, abandon superstition, feudalism and backwardness, and bravely pursue their own happiness!