Why do you choose an auspicious day for marriage?

According to the ancient custom of the Chinese nation, we should choose a good day for marriage, that is, "auspicious day". This is not only the matter that newlyweds are most concerned about, but also the matter that parents, relatives and friends are very concerned about. So, when is the auspicious day? Different countries, different nationalities and even different regions have different living habits, likes and dislikes, and the so-called auspicious days are different. For example, the Han people in our country think that it is necessary to choose days in pairs, that is, even days, and avoid odd numbers. For example: February 2, April 8, June 6,1October 20,1February 12, etc. The purpose is auspicious, smooth and safe, which indicates that married couples are loving, harmonious and happy and grow old together. This desire is understandable, and this practice is justified and blameless.

But if the choice of wedding date is extreme or even superstitious, there is no need to find a day to get married, otherwise you can't get married. In fact, you should choose a sunny day and a warm spring day in bloom, but it has little to do with one day or two; Whether the husband and wife are loving and harmonious after marriage and grow old together depends on whether the husband and wife love each other, are sincere and have a solid emotional foundation, not on which day to hold the wedding.

It is best to have sunny, sunny and warm weather on the wedding day, which is conducive to the smooth completion of various ceremonies, to everyone's activities, and to stimulating and improving everyone's happy mood. If you catch up with windy days or rainy days, it will be inconvenient for activities and affect everyone's mood. Therefore, when choosing to get married, it is best to consult the weather forecast in advance.

In addition, from a scientific and medical point of view, the date of marriage should be considered to avoid the woman's menstrual period, because during the menstrual period, women are often in a bad mood, have no sexual desire, and generally do not want to have sex. Moreover, during menstruation, the endometrium falls off, and there are many fresh wounds in the uterine cavity. During menstruation, the uterine mouth is slightly open, and bacteria are easy to invade, causing infection and gynecological diseases. Also, during menstruation, some acidic secretions that could have killed bacteria inside and outside the vagina will flow out with menstrual blood, and the rest will be neutralized by menstrual blood and lose their bactericidal effect. So the wedding will be held during the woman's menstrual period, with flowers in the bridal chamber and strong sexual desire. It will not only cause menorrhagia, prolonged menstrual period, hyperemia and excessive blood loss in the lower body, but also cause inflammation of female reproductive organs, which will not only damage health, but also affect normal sexual life. Some people may even become infertile for life because of inflammation and blockage of fallopian tubes. Therefore, the wedding must avoid the menstrual period.

Auspicious days should also be chosen when both men and women are in the best health and mood, so as to avoid a certain disease or physical recovery after illness. Because illness or recovery from illness is weak and poor both mentally and physically, and during the wedding, you need more energy and more physical strength to bear the fatigue of the wedding and experience the sweetness of the wedding. If you get married with illness, it will not only not fully reflect the happiness and joy of the wedding, but also aggravate the illness and cast a troubled shadow on the happy wedding life.

In addition, in order to commemorate the wedding ceremony, young couples often choose the Spring Festival, March 8th, May 1st, May 4th, November and other festivals as auspicious days, and greet the festive atmosphere with wedding ceremonies and honeymoons, making the festive atmosphere more intense and sweet. At the same time, it is also convenient for relatives and friends who come to congratulate. This choice should be advocated.

China's "Marriage Law" clearly stipulates that both men and women must go through the registration formalities in the marriage registration office in person and get a marriage certificate, in order to establish the relationship between husband and wife and get legal recognition and protection. Although the marriage law does not stipulate that a wedding must be held, people are used to it and even regard it as very important. In the eyes of the masses, marriage is a major event in life, and a grand wedding ceremony should be held to make people happy and add a festive atmosphere to the wedding. Various forms of content are also arranged at the wedding, in order to make the wedding as complete and decent as possible, not only to feel happy, but also to celebrate with relatives and friends and add luster to the neighbors. Especially the weddings of some ethnic minorities in China are colorful and full of national characteristics.

By establishing a new family through marriage, husband and wife not only gain the rights of spouses, but also assume the obligations to the elderly, their lovers, the next generation and society. To this end, people often give their personal marriages to the society through weddings in order to get social recognition and protection. The society also often regards the wedding as one of the means to supervise, restrain and educate the married couples, so as to ensure that they abide by social norms and fulfill their marriage and family obligations.

In many western countries, weddings are often held in churches and presided over by priests, and marriage is regarded as a contract of responsibility to "God"; In the feudal society of China, when people hold weddings, they often worship their ancestors, heaven and earth and seek the blessing of ancestors and gods. Today, people adopt the wedding ceremony to make the wedding joyful and become a well-known activity for all people. There are various roles at the wedding, such as "officiating", "witness", "introducer" and "master of ceremonies", in order to make their marriage recognized and guaranteed by the society.