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The wedding company thinks 13 is an unlucky number. What are the taboos for holding a wedding?

For many people, there is only one wedding in a lifetime, so our wedding company thinks we should choose a good day to get married. There is a lot of pressure here, not without reason. Most people choose the time to get married by the couple's birthday. Below, our wedding company will introduce some principles about choosing a day to get married. In China, it is the best choice to get married in leap year and leap month, because choosing to get married on this day will herald a good start. Of course, if we don't have time, there is no need to force it. Leap years are also divided into lunar and solar calendars. March and July of the lunar calendar are generally traditional ghost festivals, such as Qingming Menglan and Chonggong. It is best not to hold weddings in these months. It has been circulating for months that Yue Lao will not keep the red line. It is for this reason that San Niang opposed Yue Lao and ruined the couple's wedding. It is best not to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth and twenty-second day of each month. We should also pay attention to taboo customs. If you say something auspicious, you'd better not say anything unlucky, because it's not unreasonable for a good spirit to be ineffective. The most taboo number is thirteen. No wedding will be held on the thirteenth day of the lunar calendar. Long ago, Yang had thirteen sons, and they all said that his life was very good. Yang Gong often said to people, "I have thirteen sons, twelve months a year. Even if one dies in January, I still have a son to die for me. " One year, there was a plague. Yang Gong's sons got the plague and died one after another. Because it was Runnian, by the end of1February, Yang Gong's 13 sons had all died, leaving only himself, and the scene at night was very bleak. People say that what happened to Yang Gong was due to his own ugly words. From then on, people will avoid saying bad things, and once they say them, they will spit out good things. At the same time, the number thirteen is also considered an ominous number. One principle of choosing a date is to give priority to the date of birth of the bride and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As soon as the child is born, the woman will marry, which shows the importance of the woman's choice of date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce, which new people must not ignore. Parents' birthdays must be avoided Parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married. Date of registration and marriage. If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, it should be held on an auspicious day on the basis of the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting. Tradition in China always regards this day as a real wedding day.