What are the customs and conditions of marriage in Xiamen? Details can be added ~

First of all, congratulations! There are indeed many different customs in Xiamen, but there are subtle differences between them. I just got married, like a war! Generally speaking, it is based on the woman's request. You can formally visit the woman's home first and politely ask her parents what they want. Easy-going parents will say, "It's good that you are convenient." This means that there is nothing specific and special. You can follow the normal process. If the parents of the other party are serious, they will make special demands, but you don't understand, so the other party will not make any demands. On the whole, it's much simpler. The process is divided into simple operation and strict operation. Simple operation, you can choose an auspicious day in the yellow calendar, you and your parents bring a four-color cake (which will be sold to you when you ask at the bridal shop) \ engagement fee (usually in1.2-30,000), and hire it at the woman's house. If half of the woman's house is left and returned to the other half, it means that the wedding expenses will be paid by both families (Xiamen is usually invited by both men and women). If all of them are confiscated, the expenses shall be borne by the man. Book the restaurant at least half a month in advance. Many people will get married this spring, especially on a good day. You don't need to choose an expensive restaurant. No matter what you usually cook, when you start a wedding reception, all restaurants will taste the same. One table will be charged. 1000 yuan. The wedding of the bride will begin after 00:00 pm the night before the banquet. You should usually go to the door. 100-200 yuan, one pack is enough. The bride needs a new umbrella and new clothes from the inside out. Almost. Since she doesn't know anything, try to keep it simple, because if she follows the procedure strictly, she will be very tired. Young people are not so strict now. Make yourself comfortable.