What is the general process of Lujiang's engagement?

Before engagement, arrange for parents to meet, discuss an auspicious day as the engagement date, and then give the bride price to her family. The meeting and communication between parents of both sides is conducive to the familiarity between the families of both sides, and there are still many links to talk about after the wedding of the couple.

Second, the engagement supplies preparation

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1. Bridal gifts: Bridal gifts in most parts of China are generally bride price and three or four gold, and three or four gold refers to gold necklaces, earrings, bracelets and rings.

2. Banquet ceremony: How much is the banquet prepared by the woman's family for the man's family? Pay with the cash in the gift bag.

3. Engagement money: The engagement money should be even and wrapped in red paper.

4, the ceremony of the matchmaker: the male strategy is more than the woman's home.

5, engagement ring: engagement ceremony requires a ring, the man must take the woman to buy an engagement ring in advance.

Woman preparation

1. Prepare banquet: at the same time, prepare glutinous rice balls, snacks and sweet tea in advance.

2. Prepare to give back the groom: 6 pieces of hats, ties, materials, cufflinks, etc. or 12 pieces.

3. Prepare for the matchmaker ceremony.

Third, determine the engagement place.

1, engagement place

The place of engagement can be the woman's home or a hotel with a more formal environment, but in most cases, the engagement will be at the woman's home, so that relatives of both parties can talk more cordially.

2. The groom gives a dowry

After determining the venue, the groom will give the bride a dowry. The bride price is determined according to local customs and the economic situation of both families. There are no special rules.

3. Bride returns the gift

The woman should return the gift to the man and give the personal belongings prepared from head to toe to the groom. It symbolizes the happiness and sweetness of future life. Modern attention is not so much, but it can also be other auspicious things.

Step 4 put on an engagement ring

At the engagement ceremony, the man put the engagement ring on the ring finger of the woman's left hand. My mother-in-law will also wear necklaces, earrings and other gifts for the bride. Most modern engaged couples use diamond rings instead of traditional gold rings.

Fourth, the engagement dinner.

If the engagement place is to the woman's house, the woman's house will hold a banquet to entertain the man. After dinner, the man needs to give the woman a red envelope. After the engagement party, the man will leave the woman's house.

Pay attention after the engagement ceremony

(1) After the engagement ceremony, the woman will serve jiaozi or snacks to the relatives and friends of the man, and then prepare a table for the man at home or go to a restaurant for a banquet.

(2) After dinner, the man's parents hold the table and leave the table to prepare for returning to China. The woman's younger generation washes their hands with the man's relatives and friends with face washing water (with towels inside).

(3) "Farewell to Fujian" means that both men and women should not say "goodbye" to avoid complications or remarriage. Don't kick the threshold when crossing it.