20 13 is an auspicious wedding day. . . Around April and May.

First, the "old rule" of getting married on an auspicious day of the zodiac.

The "old rules" mentioned here are the Gregorian calendar, which has been perfected by generations of sages. The Gregorian calendar has the following principles for the date of marriage:

1, the year of good luck

Shuangchun

There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.

Leap moon-the leap moon in the lunar calendar

It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, that is, * * * had thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious.

Double spring and leap month

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!

2. Year, month and day not suitable for marriage

Blind year

Refers to the days when there is no "beginning of spring" all the year round. Usually, the second year of "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.

festival

Avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year. Avoid the Tomb-Sweeping Day and Orchid Festival, which is full of yin and qi, that is, March and July.

three niang evil spirit

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

Birthdays of newcomers and relatives

Avoid the birthdays of husband and wife themselves, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

Happy or sad.

Within a year, it is best not to have two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.

Second, the special principle of date selection.

The auspicious day of the zodiac is not universally applicable, because individuals are different. Strictly speaking, the birth time of the married person should be considered.

Generally speaking, the following principles need to be followed:

1. Calculate the most auspicious wedding date by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth stars and the woman's official stars (except many financial officials).

2. The "auspicious day" that the selected date does not conflict with parents' birthdays should at least not conflict with parents' horoscopes (five elements of demand) and should not conflict with parents' food-eating stars (except those with serious food injuries).

The date chosen does not conflict with the prediction. Some people are not sure of their exact time of birth. Only through divination can they determine the date. This date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.

However, on the other hand, choosing an auspicious day to get married is not as difficult as expected. The general principle is: day is more important than month, and month is more important than year. Blind years also have auspicious days, so it is not necessary to pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and it is not necessary to postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years.

Our suggestions are:

Respect both parents.

Old people will be very concerned about choosing a date. Be sure to respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision;

2. Don't be too superstitious

Although "auspicious day" is a tradition in China, at the same time, we should understand that the happiness of marriage lies in whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid, and it does not depend on a certain "auspicious day", so it needs to be arranged from a scientific perspective.

3. Set a wedding date as soon as possible

In foreign countries, newlyweds usually choose the wedding day 1 year ago, which can facilitate the arrangement of other matters in the future. Of course, you can also choose the date according to the actual situation, but try to set the wedding date earlier to prepare enough time for the wedding planning. Don't act in haste! You can ask for the opinions of important guests before setting the wedding date, but you don't have to cater to too many people. Once you have set a wedding date, don't change it easily.

4. The weather on the wedding day

Maybe you think it would be romantic to have a wedding on a rainy day? But most couples still want sunny wedding day. Whether you like light rain or sunshine, knowing the weather on the wedding day can let you know what you are doing and make some contingency arrangements in advance. You can also choose the corresponding service of the local meteorological station according to your own needs to get the real-time weather information on the wedding day, so as to plan ahead.

5. Consider the work plans of both parties.

Try to avoid affecting your work plan because of the wedding, because in those days when preparing for the wedding and holding ceremonies and wedding banquets, newcomers often can't concentrate on their work. Therefore, when setting the wedding date, you should also refer to your annual work plan. Don't choose your own peak hours or before and after a business trip, so that you can have enough holidays to spend a sweet honeymoon, and you can also avoid the situation that you can't hold the wedding as scheduled because of work emergencies or the important work plan is affected because of wedding preparations.

6. Avoid the bride's "inconvenient" days

If the wedding day happens to be the bride's menstrual period, it will be a troublesome thing, so we must make the wedding date as far as possible to avoid the bride's menstrual period. There are two ways. First, if the bride's physiological cycle is regular, her menstrual period can be calculated. Second, if it is inevitable to choose the bride's physiological cycle or the physiological cycle is irregular and it is impossible to determine the menstrual period, you can consult a doctor 10 days before the wedding. If there are no contraindications, you can take medicine before the wedding under the guidance of a doctor, and generally you can postpone your menstrual period.

7. Try to avoid the wedding season.

Due to the influence of climate and environment, there are different wedding peaks all over the country, because new people hope to hold weddings on these good days. When choosing a wedding date, first of all, you should know the wedding peak period and the peak day of the peak period in the city where you want to hold the wedding, and try to avoid these days of the peak period. In this case, it will be of great benefit to choose emcee, camera, float, hotel, dress, etc. And it will directly reduce your wedding budget or improve the quality of your wedding. In fact, sometimes as long as one day in advance or one day later, you can choose the ideal hotel, book the car you have long wanted, have the best master of ceremonies to preside over your wedding, have an excellent cameraman to record the ceremony of your life, and even your relatives and friends don't have to worry about handling several weddings at the same time.

April

20 13 Saturday, February 26th, lunar calendar (small) Chonghou (Shen Bing) Shabei.

20 13 Sunday, February 27th, lunar calendar (small) Chongji (Dingyou) Shaxi

20 13 April 10 lunar March (big) 0 1 Wednesday, rats (Boxers) were killed in the north.

20 13 April 18 Lunar March (big) Thursday 09 Chonghou (Wu Shen) Shabei

20 13 April 22nd, lunar March (June)/Monday, kloc-0/3, rats (lunzi) attack northward.

20 13 April 30th, 2nd12nd, 3rd lunar month, Chonghou (Gengshen) Shabei.

May

20 13 Friday, March 24th, lunar calendar Zhu Chong (Guihai) Dongsha.

20 13 Saturday, March 25th, Lunar New Year 2065438

20 13 May 13 Lunar April (big) 04 Monday Chongji (Gui You) Shaxi

Tuesday, April 5th, lunar calendar, Chonggou (Jiaxu) Shanan.

May 22nd, 2065 438+03 Lunar April Wednesday 13 Shanan, Ma Chong (Renwu).

On May 26th, 2065, April (April) Sunday 17 of the 3rd lunar month, Anshan, Chonggou (Bingxu).

20 13 lunar April (big) Tuesday 20 19 June 9th, the rat (Wuzi) was washed to the north.

20 13 Chinese lunar calendar, April 30th (big), Thursday, 2 1, Chonghu (Gengyin) Anshan.