The mother-in-law called her three-year-old son a jinx. After listening to her reasons, what should my husband and I do if we decide to break up?

My name is Hu Ying. I met my husband on a blind date. My husband is rather dull. I was a little reluctant at first, but the middleman was familiar with his parents. In addition, my husband's family is well-off and he is an only child, so my parents have been persuading me to agree to this marriage. Finally, I have to agree to this marriage. I told my husband that I would get married at the end of the year. In this case, many relatives and friends will be at home, which will be more lively, and my husband agrees, but. My mother-in-law went directly to my door and told my parents to advance the date. My mother-in-law also said that it is very good to find someone to calculate the date. For this reason, my mother-in-law would rather have an extra 20 thousand bride price. In the end, we had to advance our wedding. I'm actually a little annoyed at her mother-in-law's behavior.

After marriage, because she loved dogs, her mother-in-law was kind to me and didn't let me do housework. Usually, my mother-in-law cooks, and I will give her a hand. Life is so dull. In the second year of marriage, I was pregnant. After pregnancy, I became the key protection object in my family. My mother-in-law has nothing to say to me, even more severe than protecting giant pandas. When I have nothing to do, I also chat with my mother-in my spare time. Mother-in-law is not patriarchal. All she kept saying was, "This child must be a lucky star. I asked Banxianer to help me figure it out. The expected date of birth of the child is a lucky day, which can bring good luck to our family. " After listening to my mother-in-law, I said she was superstitious, but she didn't think so.

One week before the due date, my abdomen was very painful and I felt like I was about to crack. It happened that my husband was not at home that day, so I asked my mother-in-law to take me to the hospital quickly, but her mother-in-law kept blaming me for not telling me the date. Finally, call the hospital and call the husband. The doctor looked at my condition and quickly carried me to the car. My husband arrived at the hospital almost at the same time as the ambulance. After he took one look at me, I was killed. Because the intestines of the fetus are around the neck, we have to plan the uterus quickly, so my child finally came to this world safely. My husband and I are very happy, but my mother-in-law is unhappy and her face has been gloomy.

The next month, my mother-in-law didn't want to wait on me, so my husband had no choice but to take care of me at home. Later, after the second month, I took care of my son alone. I never understood why my mother-in-law did this. I gave birth to a boy, so she is still angry. When my son was 3 years old, his father-in-law died suddenly at work. The news is hard for the whole family to accept. After handling the father-in-law's funeral, the mother-in-law is more mean to her son, and sometimes his son wants to be close to her.

That day, my son was giving snacks to his mother-in-law, who grabbed them and threw them far away. She said to her son, "If it weren't for you, your grandfather wouldn't have died. It's all your fault." My son cried with a "wow". I listened to the crying and saw her mother-in-law lecturing her son, so I stopped. I asked her angrily why, and her mother-in-law said. After listening to my mother-in-law's words, I finally understood that my mother-in-law always blamed her son for being born at the wrong time, and then my father-in-law died suddenly. She actually linked the two things, so she treated her grandson like this. I told my husband about this matter, and he couldn't enlighten his mother-in-law, so he had to propose to separate from her mother-in-law, otherwise I was afraid that she would always do this, which would bring a shadow to her son. Has this ever happened to you?

Comments: This is a typical superstitious mother-in-law. There is nothing wrong with choosing an auspicious day for marriage. But who can be sure when the child will be born? It can only be decided according to the situation of the fetus and pregnant women, otherwise the consequence is likely to be one corpse and two lives. This is the first time I have met such a superstitious mother-in-law. Just live separately, otherwise it will definitely leave a shadow for the children.