What customs, details, customs, gifts, etc. Huaihua Chenxi married girl?

This friend: Let me tell you something about the engagement custom of Huaihua Chenxi. "The so-called engagement is a ceremony for both men and women to confirm their formal love relationship", that is, through the engagement ceremony, they tell neighbors, relatives and friends that this woman has a boyfriend, and good people no longer have to worry about the ownership of this woman. The general custom of deciding a husband is that the man chooses an auspicious day and obtains the consent of the woman, and the woman issues a gift list according to the number of guests invited by herself for the man to prepare. When the time comes, the man can invite the woman's guests to her home. Gift list: mainly for the quantity of tobacco, alcohol, sugar, meat and candle incense paper to comfort the ancestors. As for how much filial piety money to send to parents, it is up to you and your girlfriend to agree. Generally, the woman's parents are not convenient to talk. Filial piety money sent to the woman's parents is generally dominated by the woman's parents and is not returned to her daughter. In addition, the engagement ceremony is usually held by the man himself to show respect for the woman. But there are exceptions. If the man is too far away to take the cupboard, he can also agree with the woman's parents that the woman's parents will help him take it. As for marriage customs, it is a new society for newcomers, and it is similar everywhere. It is also necessary to give the man an auspicious day for the woman to recognize, and then the woman's parents will give some bride price, and then send it to the man when he is ready. The difference is that there is no need to bring a cupboard this time, and there will be more bride price, but most of them will be spent on the woman's drinks and wedding bets when her daughter gets married. I wish you a hundred years of harmony and happiness!