Steps to get married and choose a date

First, the wedding date must be memorized.

1. Don't get married in a year without spring. The so-called year without spring means that there is no beginning of beginning of spring Day in that year, which is also called "widowed year". It is customary to think that a "widowed" person will be widowed when he gets married.

2. Don't get married in the "animal year". If a rabbit gets married in the year of the rabbit, it is said that it is not good for him, and he can only postpone his marriage to the next year or advance to the previous year.

3. The "forbidden marriage year" is not suitable for marriage.

Male forbidden marriage year

It is not suitable to get married, such as a man who gets married the year after next, and avoid being a snake. The first five periods of a year are also taboo for men to get married.

In the year of the child, snakes are forbidden, in the ugly year, horses are forbidden, in the cloudy year, sheep are forbidden, and in the year of the hair, monkeys are forbidden.

No chickens, no dogs, no pigs at noon and no rats before the new year.

At present, ugliness is forbidden, the tiger phase is forbidden in the joint year, the rabbit phase is forbidden in the garrison year, and the Chen phase is forbidden in the Hai year.

Female life forbidden marriage year

It is not appropriate to be a nun. If a woman gets married next year, she should avoid being a rabbit. How to start: Start with a screwdriver every time and count backwards until this year is too old. If there are any signs, marriage is forbidden and should not be married.

Avoid rabbits in early years, tigers in ugly years, cows in early years and rats in early years.

Avoid pigs in the new year, dogs in the fourth year, chickens in the afternoon and monkeys in the last year.

Avoid sheep in the year of Shen, horses in the year of You, snakes in the year of garrison, and dragons in the year of Hai.

Second, the steps of choosing a date for marriage

1, women live mainly.

Usually, the choice of marriage is based on women's life, supplemented by men's life. Women's auspicious days are Italy month, auspicious month, Wenggu month or parents' month. Man's life is auspicious. He has four lives. Calculate his anger.

2. Leap year and leap month.

It is auspicious to get married on an auspicious day, and even days are yes-men. Therefore, the auspicious day of marriage can be chosen in some leap years and leap months, which will have good omen and good luck. In addition, leap years and leap months should distinguish between solar calendar and lunar calendar.

3. Harmony is good.

It is better to be harmonious, that is to say, the heavenly stems or earthly branches of the four pillars of the daily class should be five in six, and the six in six are ugly, yin, hair, Chen, Shen and Wu. It is not appropriate to choose the combat mode on certain days. Harmony means a smooth marriage, and conflict means an unstable marriage.

4. I like to use God Day.

Choose a wedding date, and both men and women celebrate God's Day, or Tianyi Noble Day, Tiande Noble Day, Wenchang Day, etc. If a woman's life is just the opposite of a man's life, a woman's life will be dominated by the day of loving God, and a man's life will just avoid the day of avoiding God.

5. Geely numbers.

According to the auspicious figures of the square column and the characters of both men and women, avoid some taboo figures. For example, if it is a eight-character wedding, it is best to use the sixth, eleventh, sixteenth, twenty-first and twenty-sixth days of the wedding. In addition, it should be noted that, generally speaking, eight characters prefer water to soil, so don't choose soil numbers on the wedding day, such as 5, 10, 15, 20, etc. Especially on March, June, August and September, it is not a good day for everyone to get married, which varies from person to person.

Third, the date of marriage is the most taboo.

1, four days.

Four sunless days, also called "Four Away from the Sun", refer to the four solar terms of beginning of spring, Changxia, beginning of autumn and beginning of winter. Because it is said that in these four days, it is not appropriate to do great things, otherwise it will easily lead to many disadvantages.

2. Poor four days.

Four poor days refer to four unlucky days in the four seasons. They are B-Day in spring, Ding-Day in summer, Xinhai Day in autumn and Guihai Day in winter. When you choose an auspicious day, you should avoid it.

3, four days of waste.

Four-day waste is similar to four-day poverty, which mainly refers to unlucky days in four seasons. They are Geng Shen in spring, Ren Zi Guihai in summer, Jia Mao in autumn and Ding Si in winter.

4, the year is off.

Breaking the Year is a familiar auspicious taboo. Mainly refers to the day of hedging with the fleeting earthly branch. For example, in the Sino-Japanese War, the meridian collided in this year, and the next day belongs to the end of the year.

5. Red Sand Day.

According to the algorithm of the dry calendar, the day of committing red sand is red sand day. For example: the afternoon of the second month, the whole month in Uzuki, the whole day seen; Silver moon Shen Yue Mitsuki Haiyue, see you the next day; When the moon is full, the ugly moon is not full, and the ugly day is seen.

6. Sanniang Festival.

Sanniang Sand Day is also familiar, mainly referring to the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th of each month. Sanniang Sha's formula: On the first three days, the third day, the seventh day, the thirteenth day, the eighteenth day, the last twenty-second day and the twenty-seventh day, you should do one thing to ensure that it is not prosperous, that men and women will not marry, that orphans and widows will not be paired, that the front of the courtyard is uninhabited, that you will lose your boat before the house is built, and that Shangguan will not return home when he takes office.

7, Yin and Yang error day.

The wrong day of yin and yang is a kind of evil day, with 12 days. They are: Bingzi Day, Ding Chou Day, Wuyin Day, Xinmao Day, Renchen Day, Qiuci Day, Bingwu Day, Ding Weiri Day, Wushen Day, Heart Day, Ren Xuri Day and Ghost Sea Day.